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Upcoming Melbourne Speed Dating Events

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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 7 December, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Hotel Railway Brunswick
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Wed, 11 December, 7:00 pm AEST
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291 Albert St, Brunswick VIC 3056
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 14 December, 4:30 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Miranda Tequila Bar
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Fri, 20 December, 7:00 pm AEST
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313 Flinders Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 21 December, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 28 December, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 4 January, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Hotel Railway Brunswick
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Wed, 8 January, 7:00 pm AEST
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291 Albert St, Brunswick VIC 3056
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Spice Market
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Fri, 24 January, 5:00 pm AEST
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Beaney Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD

3756+ people

Attend each Month

10104+ Dates

Mini Dates each week

43 Attendees

Average event attendance

735 Events

Singles events each year

Speed Dating Social's Singles Events in Melbourne

Speed dating in Melbourne is our structured matchmaking process where singles meet a large number of potential partners in a short time, enjoying a series of brief one-on-one conversations lasting 5 minutes each. All our singles parties are held at the best bars in Melbourne, like Section 8 in Tattersalls Lane, you’ll be surrounded by 12 potential soulmates bonding over your opinions of Hosier Lane street art. Be greeted by friendly hosts and enjoy some pre mingle time at the bar. Ladies, you’ll be comfortably seated while the gents rotate. At the end of each mini-date, you discreetly tick ‘match’ or ‘friends’ on a nifty matching platform 4.0. Then the next morning at 8 am, it’s like magic, you’ll receive the contact details of your mutual matches. So Book an Eventbrite ticket now and meet your next fast date in person.

And I know what you’re thinking – isn’t this just Tinder in real life? Well, yes and no. While dating apps like Bumble might give you endless swipes, Melbourne speed dating offers something far more valuable: face-to-face connection. No more catfishing, ghosting, and definitely no more awkward silences when they look nothing like their topless St Kilda beach pic. Plus you’ll never run out of things to talk about in Melbourne. Start with the classics: “What’s your favorite hidden spot in the Block Arcade?” or “Got any tips for avoiding the crowds at the MCG?” If you’re both into culture, compare notes on the best reading nooks at the State Library or debate whether Parliament House or the Royal Exhibition Building has the most impressive architecture in Australia.

Speaking of locations, most of our Melbourne singles events happen along the buzzing CBD and Flinders Lane. Take Arbory Bar & Eatery or Ponyfish Island on Flinders Walk, enjoy views of the Yarra that’ll make your heart skip a beat as you enjoy a series of 5 minute fast dates on your quest for love. And getting there is a breeze too. Hop off at Flinders Street Station and if you’re coming from Melbourne’s south eastern suburbs, the 96 tram will drop you right in the thick of it. Remember, the key to nailing these blind dates is simple: be yourself, and ask open ended questions. So book a ticket, You might just find yourself planning a second date at the Moonlight Cinema in the Botanic Gardens. 

How Speed Dating Social Events Work: A Night of Mini-Matches

Alright, let’s break down how these shindigs actually work, because knowing is half the battle, right? First things first, and please try to get there 15mins early. When you rock up to the venue, our friendly hosts will greet you like you’re Melbourne royalty. You’ll start by scanning a QR code to access our snazzy Matching App 4.0. Simply enter that nights Event Code followed by your details and you’re ready to mingle. At 7 pm sharp, we kick things off. Ladies, you’ll be seated like queens, while the gents play musical chairs, rotating every five minutes. 

Over the night you’ll have 12 mini-dates, each lasting five minutes – just enough time to decide if you want to know more about their life story. At 8 pm, we’ll give you a cheeky 10-minute intermission break to catch your breath and maybe sneak in a quick scroll through your matches so far. Then by 9 pm, you’ll have met a dozen new faces and hopefully found a few that make your heart race faster than a Richmond fan during a Grand Final. Remember, keep it light, ask the right questions, and be yourself, and who knows? You might just find your perfect Melbourne match!

speed dating social matching app 4.0

Speed Dating Social Info: Your Cupid in the Concrete Jungle

Let’s talk shop about Speed Dating Social, your trusty cupid in the concrete jungle of Melbourne. Founded by love guru Darcy Todd back in 2020 (talk about perfect timing, eh?), we’ve been playing matchmakers for the good folks of Melbourne every Friday and Saturday night for the last three years. That’s right, we’ve hosted over 787 events and introduced a whopping 37,423 singles. That’s more people than you’ll find at Marvel Stadium during a Taylor Swift concert. Early bird tickets will set you back 29.90 AUD, while last-minute decision makers pay 34.90 AUD. 

And here’s the deal – no refunds, but if life throws you a curveball and you give us a week’s notice, we’ll happily swap your ticket for another date. Got questions? Shoot us an email at matches@speeddatingsocial.com. We’re friendlier than a Fitzroy barista on a Sunday morning. So, what are you waiting for? Book your tickets now and meet your next soulmate in person.  

Who You’ll Meet: A Melting Pot of Melbourne Singles

Picture this: you walk into one of our Melbourne singles events, and suddenly you’re surrounded by a crowd more diverse than the cuisines on Lygon Street. You’ve got bright-eyed students from Melbourne Uni, young professionals from a startup in Richmond, and the stylish crowd from South Yarra fresh of the 78 tram from Chapel Street. It’s like a United Nations of dating, with a distinctly Melbourne twist. Pro tip: brush up on your knowledge of local indie bands – it’s the perfect icebreaker when you’re chatting with that cute hipster from Fitzroy.

You’ll find Melbourne’s dating scene is as colorful as its street art, and we’ve got something for everyone. Fancy meeting your rainbow connection? Our LGBTQ+ nights in Fitzroy are more vibrant than Chapel Street during Pride. And if you’re looking for your bashert, our Jewish singles mixers in Caulfield are as warm and inviting as a fresh challah from Glick’s. For those craving a spicy romance, our Indian singles nights in Clayton bring the heat faster than a vindaloo from Desi Dhaba. But that’s not all – for the coffee addicts, we’ve got hipster meetups in Brunswick that’ll leave you more buzzed than a double shot espresso. No matter your flavor, Melbourne’s got a dating scene as diverse as its laneways and as exciting as a last-minute goal at the MCG.

Oh, and parents, we haven’t forgotten you! We know juggling kids and dating can be tougher than finding parking in the CBD. That’s why we’ve partnered with the fantastic folks at Melbourne City Childcare for our events. And for that all-important second date? Why not hit up Collingwood Children’s Farm? The little ones can feed the animals while you feed the flames of your budding romance. 

What to Wear: Dress to Impress, Melbourne-Style

Alright, let’s talk threads, because in Melbourne, your outfit speaks louder than words at these blind dating events. Ladies, why not channel your inner South Yarra socialite with a chic cocktail dress from Lisa Barron on Toorak Road? Pair it with some killer heels from Tony Bianco in the Emporium, and you’re golden. Gents, keep it smart casual – think a crisp button-down from M.J. Bale on Little Collins Street, paired with well-fitted chinos and leather boots from Double Monk in Fitzroy. And always bring a light jacket. Melbourne’s weather is as unpredictable as your dating life, and you don’t want to be shivering through your mini-dates. The goal is to look like you just casually stepped off a tram and into the pages of Vogue. Now go forth and dazzle, you stylish Melburnian, you!

What to Talk About: Conversation Starters with Melbourne Flair

Ditch the pick up lines, and choose some killer conversation starters. Why not start by breaking the ice by chatting about your favorite shop at the Block Arcade? You could segue this into planning a quirky second date at ArtVo in Docklands – nothing says romance like pretending to be inside a painting together, right? For the outdoorsy types, bring up the Tan track around the Botanic Gardens by sharing your best (or worst) running times.

Now, if you’re chatting with a fellow dog lover during these fast dates, the Edinburgh Gardens in North Fitzroy is your go-to topic. It’s like Tinder for dogs there on weekends! For the fitness fanatics, drop F45 Richmond into the conversation. Compare your love-hate relationship with burpees and maybe schedule a sweat session together. And for our Christian singles, why not chat about the beautiful St. Paul’s Cathedral on Flinders Street? Remember, the key to great conversation is genuine interest and active listening. Ask follow-up questions, share your own experiences, and don’t be afraid to sprinkle in some playful banter. 

Speed Dating 20s to over 50s Find Love at Any Age

Victoria’s dating scene is as varied as the weather on a spring day – unpredictable, exciting, and full of possibilities. Whether you’re a fresh-faced millennial swiping through Tinder faster than you can say “smashed avo”, a Gen X-er navigating the brave new world of online dating, or a baby boomer looking for companionship in your golden years, we’ve got you covered. Let’s take a whirlwind tour through the age ranges of Melbourne’s speed dating scene, shall we?

Over 50s Dating Nights

Our over 50s and 60s speed dating events in Melbourne is like fine wine – it only gets better with age. You’ll find a delightful mix of empty-nesters ready for their second act, successful professionals looking for a partner to share their hard-earned leisure time, and vibrant retirees more active than a Fitzroy yoga studio on a Sunday morning. Conversations here are rich with life experiences, ranging from favorite spots in the Dandenong Ranges to debates about the best wineries in the Yarra Valley. These events often take place at classy venues Beneath Drivers Lane, where the sophisticated ambiance matches the refined tastes of the attendees. Forget about navigating Senior Match – nothing beats the authenticity of face-to-face 5 minute connections. Pro tip: Mention your favorite weekend getaway spot in Daylesford or your thoughts on the latest Melbourne Theatre Company production. Book your spot, life after 50 is when the real fun begins.

Melbourne speed dating event for over 50s at Diesel Bar in Victoria, Australia

Over 40s Melbourne Singles Nights

Welcome to our over 40s speed dating. This group is a delightful mix of professionals who’ve swiped left on the corporate ladder and are now looking for someone to share their hard-earned long weekends with. You’ll meet divorcees ready for a second chance at love, career-focused individuals finally making time for romance, and late bloomers embracing the dating scene with the enthusiasm of a Melburnian at a surprise pop-up gelato store. Conversations here are more about your favorite wineries in the Yarra Valley. These events often take place at sophisticated venues like the State of Grace on King Street, where the ambiance matches the refined palate of the attendees. Nothing beats the chemistry of meeting other singles in their forties over shared stories of ’90s nostalgia and debating the best schools in the Melbourne’s South Eastern suburbs. 

20s and 30s Singles Events

For our millennial and Gen Z crowd, our 20s and 30s speed dating events in Melbourne is like scrolling through Instagram, but with real-life filters. You’ll find RMIT students debating oat milk supremacy, Richmond start-up gurus with more plants than code, and creatives with Depop side hustles. Discuss how finding Fairyfloss share houses is more competitive than scoring Splendour tickets! Or bond over Brunswick’s best smashed avo or hate of Hook Turns. These singles nights happen at cool spots like Arbory Bar & Eatery, where the vibe matches their espresso martinis. So take out your AirPods, book your spot, enjoy a series of fast dates and you might just meet the one who forgets their Myki as much as you.

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Brunswick Speed Dating for locals 

Our Speed dating in Brunswick offers a whirlwind tour of the local dating scene, cramming a month’s worth of first dates into one exhilarating evening. Our Brusnwick venues like The Penny Black on Sydney Road or the industrial-chic Howler on Dawson Street, singles embark on 12 rapid-fire five-minute dates. The eclectic crowd might include hip RMIT designers, innovative Lygon Street startup gurus, or community-minded teachers from Brunswick Secondary College. Conversation flows as freely as the craft beers, with topics ranging from favorite spots in CERES Community Environment Park to heated debates about the best coffee on Lygon Street. As daters rotate through their mini-encounters, the bustling ambiance of Sydney Road provides a fitting backdrop, embodying Brunswick’s vibrant, artistic spirit.

South Eastern Speed Dating Events

Live out in the burbs? Our South Eastern Melbourne speed dating is held at popular spots like the trendy Sonder Bar in Bentleigh or the historic Half Moon in Brighton. Singles gather for a night of rapid-fire romance. Each event features 12 five-minute dates, offering a smorgasbord of potential connections. You might find yourself chatting with a tech whiz from the Monash Precinct, a creative soul fresh from a Monash University lecture, or a stylish boutique owner from Chadstone Shopping Centre. Conversations sparkle with local flavor – from comparing notes on the best beaches (Brighton or Hampton?) to planning hypothetical hikes in the Dandenong Ranges. These blind dating nights capture the essence of South East Melbourne’s vibrant singles scene.

Geelong Speed Dating Nights

For those singles living in Geelong, speed dating gives you a chance to find that spark, meeting multiple potential partners face-to-face for instant chemistry. At stylish venues like The Deck on Eastern Beach Road or the prohibition-style 18th Amendment Bar on Little Malop Street, participants engage in a series of 5-minute mini-dates with fellow Geelong singles. The diverse crowd might include Deakin University students, professionals from the TAC, or creatives from the flourishing arts scene. Use conversation starters about the best spots in the Geelong Botanic Gardens or the next match at GMHBA Stadium. Enjoy stunning Corio Bay views in a whirlwind evening of potential connections.

Geelong speed dating event at The Deck in Victoria Australia

Mornington Singles Parties

For singles living on the Mornington Peninsula, speed dating offers a chance to find that spark, meeting multiple potential partners face-to-face for instant chemistry. At charming venues like The Royal Hotel on Main Street in Mornington or the sophisticated Brass Razu wine bar, participants engage in a series of 5-minute mini-dates with fellow Peninsula singles. The diverse crowd might include young professionals from Monash University’s Peninsula campus, local entrepreneurs, or wine enthusiasts from the region’s renowned vineyards. Use conversation starters about favorite spots in the Peninsula Hot Springs or the best views from Arthurs Seat Eagle. Enjoy stunning Port Phillip Bay vistas in a whirlwind evening of potential connections, all while sipping on locally-produced wines or signature cocktails like the “Peninsula Sunset.”

Fitzroy’s Mini Dates

Fitzroy speed dating scene is as vibrant as its famous street art, offering singles a whirlwind tour of Melbourne’s coolest suburb. At iconic venues like the 1920s-inspired Polly Bar on Brunswick Street or the eclectic Naked for Satan on Brunswick Street, participants dive into a series of rapid-fire dates. You might find yourself chatting with a tattooed barista from Industry Beans, a startup guru from the York Butter Factory, or an artist fresh from a showing at Seventh Gallery. Break the ice by comparing notes on the best vegan burgers at Vegie Bar, debating the merits of vintage finds at Rose Street Artists’ Market, or planning a hypothetical mural for Fitzroy’s famous Rose Street. With the buzzing atmosphere of Brunswick Street as your backdrop and perhaps a craft beer from Black Pearl in hand, it’s the perfect setting to find your hipster soulmate.

Berwick’s Fast Dating Scene

For singles in Berwick, speed dating offers a refreshing alternative to online swiping, with face-to-face connections in the heart of Melbourne’s southeast. At charming venues like The Courthouse Circa 1884 on Gloucester Avenue or the historic Berwick Inn Hotel on High Street, participants engage in a series of lively 5-minute dates. The diverse crowd might include students from Federation University, professionals from the nearby business park, or locals from surrounding suburbs like Narre Warren and Pakenham. Spark conversations about the latest exhibition at Bunjil Place Gallery, debate the best vanilla slice from local bakeries, or plan hypothetical picnics at Wilson Botanic Park. As you rotate through your mini-dates, perhaps with a “Guilty Pleasure” cocktail in hand, you’ll experience Berwick’s unique blend of historic charm and modern suburban vibrancy. It’s a perfect opportunity to find romance or friendship while discovering the hidden gems of this growing community.

Ringwood Blind Dating Nights

Ringwood’s speed dating scene offers a refreshing twist for singles in Melbourne’s east. At the retro-chic Club Ringwood or the elevated Suburban Rooftop & Dining, locals mingle in a series of rapid-fire encounters. You might chat with a Swinburne student about the best study spots, compare notes on Eastland’s latest shops with a retail guru, or debate the merits of the Ringwood station upgrade with a daily commuter. Between dates, bond over shared experiences like getting lost in Costco’s aisles or favorite trails in Ringwood Lake Park. With the Dandenong Ranges as a backdrop and perhaps a “Fiery Passion” cocktail in hand, these events capture the essence of Ringwood’s evolving identity – a perfect blend of suburban comfort and urban sophistication.

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Inclusive Dating Events

Love is love, unfortunately it took until 2017 for same sex marriage to be legalised in Australia, but we’ve always brought he most inclusive singles events to you. Depending on your culture, lifestyle or religion, meet singles with the most compatible values to you. 

Spice Up Your Love Life: Asian Speed Dating

G’day, Asian singles! Ready to find your Melbourne match made in dim sum heaven? Our Asian speed dating events at Golden Pavilion on Little Bourke Street are more exciting than a lightning round of mahjong! Here, you’ll meet fellow Asians from diverse backgrounds – Chinese, Indian, Vietnamese, and Japanese, to name a few. Whether you’re looking for someone who understands the importance of filial piety or can argue about the best bubble tea in Melbourne, you’re in for a treat. Forget EastMeetEast; meet in person and invite them to Victoria night market or plan a date to the upcoming Lunar New Year festival. Remember, in Asian dating, family values and cultural understanding are often key.

Rainbow Connections: LGBTQ+ Speed Dating

Calling all singles of Melbourne’s fabulous LGBTQ+ community! Our queer speed dating nights at Noisy Ritual in Brunswick East are more colorful than a summer Pride parade down Smith Street. Whether you’re gay, lesbian, bi, or anywhere on the rainbow spectrum, we’ve got you covered. Forget Grindr or Her; here, you can actually gauge someone’s vibe without worrying if they’re a catfish. Our events are a safe haven where you can let your true colors shine, whether you’re seeking a soulmate or a plus-one for Midsumma’s famous T Dance. Break the ice by swapping coming out stories, comparing notes on the best drag shows at Mollie’s Bar and Diner, or Victorian Pride Centre. For a perfect follow-up date, suggest a night at The Butterfly Club. 

Dear Pluto gay speed dating night at noisy ritual in Brunswick, VIC

Faith and Romance: Christian Speed Dating

Hallelujah, Melbourne Christians! Looking for a partner in both life and faith? Our Christian speed dating events at St. Paul’s Cathedral on Flinders Street are more uplifting than a Sunday sermon. Here, you’ll meet fellow believers who understand the importance of shared values and spiritual connection in a relationship. Forget Christian Mingle; nothing beats the joy of discovering someone’s favorite Bible verse face-to-face. Use this opportunity to discuss your church involvement, favorite worship songs, or plans for volunteering at the Salvation Army. Break the ice by sharing your thoughts on the latest Alpha course and if all goes well, suggesting a first date to the beautiful Botanic Gardens. 

Mazel Tov to Love: Jewish Speed Dating

Shalom, Jewish singles of Melbourne! Ready to find your bashert? Our Jewish speed dating events at Feinstein’s on Carlisle Street in Balaclava are more exciting than spinning a dreidel on Hanukkah! And with blind dating events being invented in 1998 by Rabbi Yaacov Deyo, it’s like we’re continuing a modern Jewish tradition. Here, you’ll meet fellow Members of the Tribe who understand the importance of tradition, family, and a good bagel. Forget JDate; nothing beats the chemistry of sharing your bubbe’s secret matzo ball soup recipe in person. Who knows? You might find someone to build a sukkah with, attend the In One Voice festival, or simply share a lazy Sunday brunch at Cafe Scheherazade.

Social Blind Dating Nights

Experience the Biggest and Best Events in Melbourne

Success Stories 💑

Many have already found love

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

“I just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

“When I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

Frequently Asked Questions

What to wear? dress to impress while staying true to your style. Gents, opt for smart casual – think tailored chinos and a crisp button-down from Calibre on Little Collins Street. Ladies, a chic cocktail dress from Cue in Emporium Melbourne will turn heads. Accessorize thoughtfully – a statement watch or elegant necklace can be great conversation starters. For that perfect ‘do, guys should visit Kings Domain Barbers in South Yarra for a sharp fade, while ladies can get voluminous waves at Edwards and Co in Fitzroy. Remember, confidence is your best accessory, so wear something that makes you feel fabulous!

Melbourne’s speed dating scene is buzzing, typically drawing around 40 eager singles per event. You’ll meet folks from trendy Fitzroy and upscale South Yarra, creating a diverse mix of Melburnians. We aim for a 50:50 gender ratio, but life happens – expect about 15% no-shows. Don’t worry though! By overbooking to 50, we usually end up with a cozy group of 20 gents and 20 ladies. That’s plenty of mini-dates to spark a connection! Whether you’re a Carlton hipster or a CBD professional, you’re bound to meet intriguing singles from all corners of our vibrant city.

A singles parties are more free-form, typically held at trendy venues like Roof Top Bar or The Emerson. Picture this: you’re sipping a craft cocktail, mingling with fellow singles against the backdrop of Melbourne’s sparkling skyline. These parties often feature ice-breaker games, giving you a chance to showcase your wit faster than a barista can make a flat white. Some parties have themes – from ‘Gatsby glamour’ to ‘Melbourne coffee snobs’ – adding an extra layer of fun. It’s a relaxed way to meet potential matches, make new friends, or simply enjoy the nightlife. Remember, whether you leave with a phone number or just great memories, you’re part of Victoria’s dynamic social scene!

Melbourne’s speed dating scene is as diverse as the city itself! You’ll meet professionals from the bustling Collins Street financial district, creative types from RMIT University, and dedicated teachers from Melbourne High School. Expect a mix of laid-back St Kilda beach lovers and sophisticated South Yarra socialites. Richmond locals might chat about their favorite AFL team, while Brunswick attendees could share their latest vegan café discovery. From coffee snobs to culture vultures, Melbourne’s speed dating events attract a vibrant cross-section of our multicultural city, all united in their quest for connection.

While speed dating in Melbourne is a blast, it’s not without its quirks. Living more than an hour’s drive from the CBD might make follow-up dates tricky. Age restrictions apply – you’ll need to be 18+ for our bar events. No-shows can happen, but we’ve got you covered with a 5-minute chill time to grab a drink or scroll Instagram. The pressure to make a stellar first impression in just minutes can be intense, and let’s be honest, it might unfairly favor the photogenic. But hey, that’s why we encourage multiple events – true connection often needs more than one shot!

Speed dating is like Melbourne’s famous coffee scene – quick, intense, and potentially life-changing! Picture this: you’re at a trendy spot like Arbory Bar & Eatery, embarking on 12 five-minute chats with potential matches. It’s a whirlwind of first impressions, witty banter, and maybe even a spark of chemistry. After each mini-date, you discreetly note if you’d like to see them again. This matchmaking magic was dreamed up by Rabbi Yaacov Deyo and his students in 1998 in Los Angeles, but it’s found a perfect home in our social butterfly of a city!

Does speed dating work? Well, as we say in Melbourne, “Yeah, nah, yeah!” Research shows there’s a 69% likelihood of reciprocity in liking – not bad odds! Many attendees report feeling mutual attraction during our events. It’s like finding your perfect coffee blend; sometimes you know at first sip, sometimes it grows on you. While it might not guarantee instant love, it’s a fun, efficient way to meet singles face-to-face. Plus, in a city that loves its social scenes as much as Melbourne does, it’s a great addition to your dating repertoire!

Gone are the days of scribbling on paper – our speed dating has gone digital! Upon arrival, our friendly hosts will greet you and direct you to scan a QR code. This opens our snazzy Matching App 4.0, where you’ll input the event code, your name, starting table number, and email. As you mingle, use the app to view attendee profiles and mark ‘Match’ or ‘Friend’. It’s as easy as ordering a flat white! The best part? You’ll wake up to your matches at 8am the next day. Who knows, your perfect match might be just a click away!

Fitness speed dating in Melbourne? You bet! It’s perfect for singles who prefer protein shakes to pinot noir. Discuss your Pilates routine at KX Pilates in South Yarra or your favorite cycling route along Beach Road. These events attract health-conscious singles looking for a partner to share their active lifestyle. For a unique first date, why not suggest a workout session at F45 Training in Richmond, followed by a post-sweat smoothie at Greene Street Juice Co? It’s a great way to get those endorphins flowing and see if you’re a fitness match made in heaven!

Melbourne’s follow-up date scene is as exciting as our hidden bars! For a classic night out, book a table at Chin Chin in the CBD – the wait is worth it for their caramelized pork. If you’re feeling adventurous, try the immersive theatre experience at Ukiyo in St Kilda. Picture this: you’re solving mysteries together, drinks in hand, in a Japanese-inspired setting. It’s the perfect icebreaker! Pro tip: arrive early to grab a pre-show cocktail and calm those first-date jitters. Remember, the best dates showcase your personality, so choose a spot that feels authentically you!

Let’s talk refunds and cancellations – it’s not as exciting as a first date, but it’s important! We have a no-refunds policy, so choose your event carefully. However, we’re not heartless! If you need to change plans, email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not via social media) at least 7 days before the event. If we agree, we can transfer your ticket to another posted event of the same age range. But remember, it’s not an open-ended credit – use it or lose it! We’re all about making connections, not refunds, so mark those calendars and get ready to mingle!

While both offer speed dating in our vibrant city, CitySwoon often uses a roaming format, sending you on a bar-hopping adventure across Melbourne’s laneways. Speed Dating Social, on the other hand, typically hosts events at a single venue like the trendy Arbory Afloat. CitySwoon employs an algorithm for matching, while Speed Dating Social uses their Matching App 4.0 for a more hands-on approach.

While both involve rapid-fire introductions, speed dating and speed friending serve different purposes in Melbourne’s social scene. Speed dating, often held at chic spots like Eau de Vie, is all about romantic connections. You’ll have mini-dates, usually around 5 minutes each, with potential love interests. Speed friending, on the other hand, is platonic matchmaking. It might take place at a laid-back venue like Mr. Wow’s Emporium in Collingwood, where you’ll meet potential new mates in a pressure-free environment. Speed friending is perfect for newcomers or anyone looking to expand their social circle. Both use similar formats, but speed friending focuses on shared interests and potential friendships rather than romantic spark. 

Indian speed dating in Melbourne is like a vibrant Bollywood mixer meets Carlton’s famous Lygon Street! These events cater to Melbourne’s thriving Indian community and those interested in Indian culture. You might find yourself at a trendy spot like Tonka in the CBD, discussing favorite curry houses or debating the best Bollywood films. Expect a mix of first and second-generation Indian-Australians, with conversations potentially spanning from traditional values to modern dating dilemmas. Some might be seeking partners who understand the delicate balance of East-meets-West, while others are simply looking for a connection with shared cultural experiences. Don’t be surprised if topics like cricket at the MCG or the best dosa in town come up! For a follow-up date, why not suggest High Tea at the iconic Hopetoun Tea Rooms, followed by a stroll through the nearby Indian Film Festival.

1800 Lasagne speed dating is Melbourne’s cheesiest (pun intended) twist on the dating scene! Held at the cult-favorite 1800 Lasagne restaurant in Thornbury, this unique event combines our love for carbs and connection. Picture this: you’re seated at a communal table, a steaming plate of their famous lasagne in front of you, ready to meet fellow pasta enthusiasts. Between bites of gooey, saucy goodness, you’ll have mini-dates with other singles. The shared experience of indulging in Melbourne’s most talked-about comfort food serves as the perfect icebreaker. It’s less about impressing with fancy outfits and more about bonding over a mutual appreciation for layers of pasta, ragu, and béchamel.

Trivia nights in Melbourne are the perfect blend of brain power and social lubrication, much like our city’s famous coffee culture! These events, typically held in local pubs like The Crafty Squire or The Elephant and Wheelbarrow, are competitive quiz games where teams battle it out over rounds of mind-bending questions. Picture this: you’re huddled with your crew, racking your brains about everything from AFL stats to obscure ’80s pop culture, all while enjoying a pint of local craft beer. It’s not just about showing off your knowledge of Friends or Geography – trivia nights are fantastic for meeting new people, whether you’re seeking romance or just expanding your social circle.

Beer, cider, and wine tours in Melbourne are like a liquid love letter to Victoria’s craft beverage scene! Picture yourself cruising through the picturesque Yarra Valley or sun-drenched Mornington Peninsula, glass in hand, surrounded by fellow beverage enthusiasts. These tours are a triple threat: part social mixer, part boozy education. You’ll hop between boutique wineries, hip microbreweries, and charming cider houses, sampling everything from bold Heathcote Shiraz to crisp Yarra Valley ciders. Expert guides spill the tea (or rather, the wine) on production processes and local history, making you sound like a connoisseur by day’s end. It’s the perfect ice-breaker for singles – nothing gets conversation flowing like debating the merits of a hoppy IPA or a buttery Chardonnay. Whether you’re a beer buff, wine connoisseur, or cider sipper, these tours offer a tasty way to mingle and maybe even find your perfect pairing!

Online speed dating is Melbourne’s answer to finding love in your loungeroom – it’s like Zoom meetings, but way more fun and with better odds of a goodnight kiss! This modern twist on traditional in person events allows singles to connect face-to-face (well, screen-to-screen) from the comfort of their own homes. Picture this: you’re in your favorite trackies, glass of Yarra Valley Pinot in hand, ready to meet potential matches without battling the traffic or weather. Using platforms like Zoom, you’ll have a series of short, one-on-one video chats with other singles, typically lasting 5 minutes each.