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Upcoming Over 40s Speed Dating Events

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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 3 August, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Bendigo Street Milk Bar
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Sun, 28 July, 5:00 pm AEST
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37 Bendigo St, Richmond VIC 3121
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Miranda Tequila Bar
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Fri, 9 August, 7:00 pm AEST
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313 Flinders Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 10 August, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 17 August, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Spice Market
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Fri, 23 August, 7:00 pm AEST
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Beaney Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 24 August, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Hotel Railway Brunswick
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Wed, 28 August, 7:00 pm AEST
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291 Albert St, Brunswick VIC 3056
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 31 August, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Miranda Tequila Bar
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Fri, 6 September, 7:00 pm AEST
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313 Flinders Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Over 40s Speed Dating Events In Melbourne

Our Speed Dating Social Events for over 40s in Melbourne are fun social events where mature singles meet and engage in a series of brief dates, typically lasting around five minutes each, with the aim of finding romantic connections. And being at this stage means you’re seasoned and experienced when it comes to finding love. So if you’ve already tried eHarmony or Match.com, book a ticket for an over 40s speed dating event and meet in person instead.ย 

Meeting singles who are over 40 in Melbourne offers a refreshing change from the traditional dating sites. What’s more you’ll find these singles often own their homes, have established careers, and value meaningful connections over casual flings. And yes I know you still face challenges such as balancing dating with family responsibilities and are tired of those with baggage. But if you’re clear about your intentions and seeking partners with compatible life goals, speed dating is for you.

Our Venues

In South Yarra, our popular bar The Emerson hosts lively over 40s speed dating nights. The Emerson’s rooftop bar, stylish decor, and vibrant atmosphere make it a perfect setting for mingling. Here, attendees experience a relaxed yet exciting environment, enhancing the overall blind dating experience. Their must try signature drinks like the “Emerson Espresso Martini” add a touch of sophistication to your evening. And for those in the mature and seasoned stage of life, a tip for attending is to dress comfortably yet stylishly and come with an open mind, ready to engage in meaningful conversations.

In Richmond, The Corner Hotel is a favored spot for our over 40s singles events. Known for its rooftop garden, live music, and eclectic vibe, it creates a dynamic backdrop for our singles parties. These features foster an engaging and memorable experience, as attendees move between their mini-dates against the backdrop of live tunes and vibrant city views. And try ordering a “Corner Lager” which can be a great conversation starter. Our tips for attendees include being genuine and focusing on enjoying the moment rather than stressing about outcomes.

Fitzroy’sย Naked for Satan provides a unique venue for speed dating with its panoramic Melbourne views, industrial chic ambiance, and famous pintxos. This creates an intimate yet lively atmosphere, perfect for fostering your new connections. The “Naked for Satan Vodka” is a must-try drink that complements the venue’s quirky vibe. Mature singles should aim to be themselves and actively listen to their dates, is highly valued at this stage of life.

What To Expect At Our Events

Booking through Eventbrite is seamless: you choose your event, complete the registration, and receive an e-ticket. Upon arrival, you are greeted by our friendly hosts who provide a name card and guide you to scan a QR code to access the Matching App 4.0. This app allows you to view all attendees and mark your matches or friends directly from your phone. The evening kicks off with mingling at the bar, followed by a structured series of 12 five-minute dates, with a 10-minute midway intermission break. The rotations ensure that you meet a diverse group of potential matches within your age range, typically lasting from 7 PM to 9 PM.

Speed Dating Social events, founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, has had over 787 events and 37,423 introductions made. Our tickets are priced at $29.90 for early birds and $34.90 for last release, with no refunds within 30 days of the event. For inquiries, contact matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

Post Event Epping Date Night Ideas

After the event, Melbourne offers great romantic destinations like the Royal Botanic Gardens and a sunset cruise along the Yarra River, ideal for second dates. The gardens provide a serene and picturesque setting for a leisurely stroll, while a cruise offers a unique and intimate way to enjoy the city skyline together. These experiences foster deeper connections after your initial fast dates.

Attendee Reviews

Jeffery
Jeffery
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I tried a speed dating night in Melbourne, it was pretty good, I think 2 ladies didn't show up but I still got about 14 dates
Sarah
Sarah
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was a fun night out with my girlfriends, some conversations were a tad dull but 2 cute guys made it worth it and even got their numbers
Steph H
Steph H
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I didn't know speed dating was a thing but I'm new to the area and was good meeting some new people
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Frequently Asked Questions

When speed dating in your 40s, aim for a look that is stylish yet comfortable. For men, a smart casual outfit such as a nice shirt and tailored pants works well. For women, a chic dress or a blouse paired with a skirt or tailored pants is a good choice. A great place to shop for outfits in Melbourne is David Jones, located on Bourke Street. They offer a wide range of fashionable and sophisticated clothing options suitable for speed dating.

Good topics to discuss while speed dating include hobbies, travel experiences, and favorite local spots. Specifically, Melbourne singles in their 40s might be interested in talking about cultural activities like visiting the Melbourne Museum or enjoying live music at the Palais Theatre. Discussing these interests can lead to a second date at these iconic Melbourne locations.

To look your best when speed dating, consider visiting a local hairdresser or beauty salon. In Melbourne, “Boda Hair Boutique” on Chapel Street is highly recommended. Just ask for a fresh haircut or a style that suits your personality and enhances your features. Additionally, a facial treatment can give your skin a healthy glow.

Typically, around 40 attendees come to our over 40s singles events, with an equal number of men and women. People usually come from various suburbs, including Southbank and St Kilda. This diverse turnout increases your chances of meeting local and compatible matches.

Yes, you can absolutely find love in your 40s. Attendees at these events are often in a mature and stable stage of life, sometimes referred to as being in their “prime years.” Many have had past relationships and are now looking for serious, long-term connections. They value qualities like stability, shared interests, and mutual respect in a partner.

Dating in your 40s has many advantages. You often have better financial stability, a clearer understanding of what you want from a relationship, and more time to invest in meaningful connections. People at this stage typically seek partners who share similar life goals and values.

Singles in their 40s in Melbourne often gravitate towards activities such as wine tasting at the Yarra Valley, joining book clubs like “Melbourne Book Club,” or participating in fitness classes at “F45 Training.” To get involved, look for local events or join social media groups related to these interests.

Three popular meetup groups for over 40s in Melbourne are:

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  1. “Melbourne Over 40s Social Group” โ€“ They organize a variety of social events, from dinners to outdoor activities.
  2. “Melbourne Mature Singles” โ€“ A group focused on connecting mature singles through social outings and events.
  3. “Melbourne 40+ Singles and Minglers” โ€“ Offers a range of events, including casual meetups and more structured gatherings.

To get involved, join the Meetup app, RSVP to events, and go to the events and be open, friendly, and ready to engage in conversations with new people.