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Upcoming Speed Dating Events in Carlton

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Spice Market
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Fri, 11 October, 7:00 pm AEST
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Beaney Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 19 October, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 26 October, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 2 November, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Hotel Railway Brunswick
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Wed, 6 November, 7:00 pm AEST
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291 Albert St, Brunswick VIC 3056
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Diesel Bar & Eatery
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Sat, 9 November, 5:00 pm AEST
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202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Spice Market
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Fri, 15 November, 7:00 pm AEST
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Beaney Ln, Melbourne VIC 3000 3000
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD

3756+ people

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10104+ Dates

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43 Attendees

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735 Events

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Welcome to Carlton's Sizzling Speed Dating Scene

Hey there, fellow Melburnians! Looking for love in the bustling heart of our city’s inner north? Well, buckle up, because Carlton’s speed dating scene is hotter than a freshly baked pizza from Lygon Street! For those new to the game, speed dating is like Tinder in real life, minus the endless swiping – you’ll meet a bunch of potential matches face-to-face in one fun-filled evening. Carlton, that charming inner-city suburb just 2km north of Melbourne’s CBD, is the perfect backdrop for your romantic adventures. Hop on the 1 or 6 tram lines, or take a short stroll from Melbourne Central station, and you’ll find yourself in the thick of Carlton’s vibrant nightlife along Lygon Street and Elgin Street. With neighboring Fitzroy and Collingwood adding to the mix, you’re sure to meet an eclectic bunch of singles. Ready to dive in? Book your tickets now and let’s get this party started!

Our Carlton speed dating events kick off at 7 PM sharp, usually on a buzzing Thursday night. When you arrive, you’ll be greeted by our friendly staff who’ll help you sign in using our nifty Matching App 4.0. Don’t worry, technophobes – it’s easier than ordering a latte at Seven Seeds! Once everyone’s settled, the magic begins. You’ll have 12 five-minute mini-dates, with the gents rotating and the ladies staying put (ladies, consider it your throne for the evening). We’ll throw in a cheeky intermission around 8:30 PM for you to catch your breath and maybe sneak in a confidence-boosting vino. By 9:30 PM, you’ll have met a dozen potential matches. After the event, simply select ‘Match’ or ‘Friend’ for each person you’ve met. The next morning at 8 AM, you’ll wake up to your matches – way better than a hangover, right?

Now, let’s talk outfits. Gentlemen, ditch the activewear (save that for your Carlton Gardens jog) and opt for smart casual. Ladies, that new dress from Brunetti Emporium on Lygon Street? Perfect! Remember, you’re not just dressing for your dates, but for that potential Instagram-worthy moment at IMAX Melbourne afterward. Book your spot through Eventbrite and choose your age bracket – we’ve got everything from 20s to 50s+. And hey, we’re all about inclusivity here in Carlton. Keep an eye out for our specialized events for LGBTQ+, Christian, and Asian singles. And for a second date, follow up with a romantic stroll through the Ian Potter Museum of Art. Carlton’s got something for everyone. Now, what are you waiting for? Book those tickets and get ready to meet your match!

From Arrival to Matches, Your Night of Romance Unfolds

Picture this: you walk into one of Carlton’s coolest venues, maybe The Lincoln on Cardigan Street or The Clyde Hotel on Elgin Street. You’re greeted with a smile and a name tag (don’t worry, we use first names only – we’re not savages). As you mingle pre-event, you might find yourself bonding over a shared love of Cinema Nova’s rooftop cinema or debating the best gelato on Lygon Street. When the bell rings, it’s showtime! You’ll rotate through 12 five-minute dates, using our Matching App 4.0 to keep track. Just scan the QR code, enter the event code, and you’re set. During intermission, we’ll throw in some icebreakers – maybe a Carlton-themed trivia game? With 20 men and 20 women, the odds are in your favor. And trust me, it beats swiping right on Tinder while waiting for your latte at Brunetti. Pro tip: ask about their favorite hidden gem in Carlton – it’s a great conversation starter and potential second date idea!

About Speed Dating Social: Your Local Matchmakers

Meet Darcy Todd, the mastermind behind Speed Dating Social. Since 2020, we’ve been playing cupid across Melbourne, with a whopping 787+ events and over 37,423 introductions under our belt. That’s more matches than Carlton Football Club has made in the past century! (Sorry, Blues fans.) Want to join the fun? Grab an early bird ticket for $29.90, or if you’re a last-minute Lucy, snag a last-release ticket for $34.90. Just remember, we’ve got a strict no-refund policy within 30 days of an event – but trust us, you won’t want to miss out. Got questions? Drop us a line at matches@speeddatingsocial.com. We’re friendlier than the baristas at Pellegrini’s Espresso Bar, and that’s saying something! Ready to take the plunge? Book your tickets now and let’s make some magic happen in Carlton!

Who You'll Meet, A Melting Pot of Melbourne Singles

Imagine a melting pot as diverse as the cuisines on Lygon Street, and you’ve got our Carlton speed dating crowd. You might find yourself chatting with a med student from the University of Melbourne, a curator from Melbourne Museum, or a startup guru from the Carlton Connect Initiative. Ages range from fresh-faced 20-somethings to silver foxes in their 50s, all united by a love for Carlton’s charm and a desire to find that special someone. Some are speed dating veterans, smooth as the espresso at Brunetti, while others are first-timers, nervous as a Blues supporter on Grand Final day. But don’t worry – the atmosphere is as warm and welcoming as a summer evening in Carlton Gardens.

For our specialized events, we’ve got something for everyone. LGBTQ+ singles might kick off their evening at The Nova Cinema before joining us, while our Christian events often attract folks from St Jude’s on Lygon Street. Asian singles events are as popular as dumplings in Chinatown! Single parents, we’ve got your back too – check out Gowrie Carlton North for childcare options. For a family-friendly second date, why not picnic in Princes Park? It beats swiping on apps while your kids are at footy practice, right? And let’s be honest, nothing beats the chemistry of meeting face-to-face. You can’t smell someone’s perfume or catch that twinkle in their eye on Bumble!

Dating Fashion: Dress to Impress in Carlton Style

Alright, fashionistas, listen up! For the gents, think smart casual – a crisp button-down from Melburnalia on Lygon Street paired with well-fitted jeans is always a winner. Ladies, that cute dress you snagged from Brunetti Emporium? Perfect! But if you’re in the mood for something new, take a stroll down Lygon Street or pop into Melbourne Central for some last-minute shopping. Need a quick spruce up? The fellas at Beef’s Barbers on Elgin Street work magic, while the team at Edwards And Co on Drummond Street can give the ladies that extra confidence boost. Remember, we’re going for “effortlessly chic Carlton local” here, not “trying too hard tourist on Swanston Street”. Comfort is key – you’ll be sitting, standing, and hopefully laughing a lot. And hey, if all else fails, a genuine smile is always the best accessory. Just make sure it’s not covered in Tiramisu from Brunetti!

speed dating event at Heartattack and Vine on Lygon street in Calrton, VIC

Breaking the Ice: Carlton-Inspired Conversation Starters

Stuck for conversation starters? Fear not, we’ve got you covered like parmesan on pasta! Kick things off by asking about their favorite spot in the Carlton Gardens – is it the Royal Exhibition Building, the Melbourne Museum, or that secret bench with the best people-watching view? Sports fans can debate whether Carlton FC will ever reclaim their glory days, while foodies can argue over the best pasta on Lygon Street (Pro tip: Tiamo’s penne arrabbiata is hard to beat). For our faith-based events, ask about their experience at St Jude’s on Lygon Street or the Church of All Nations on Palmerston Street.

Dog lovers, unite over tales from Curtain Square’s dog park, or share your go-to order at the pet-friendly Great Northern Hotel. Fitness enthusiasts can swap stories about jogging routes in Princes Park or recommend their favorite class at Carlton Baths. Remember, the key is to listen as much as you talk – you’ve got two ears and one mouth for a reason! And when you feel that spark, don’t be shy about suggesting a follow-up date. Maybe a film at Cinema Nova followed by gelato at Pidapipo? Now that’s amore, Carlton style!

Our Most Popular Venues In Calrton

Heartattack and Vine: Where Love Strikes Without Warning

This Lygon Street gem, Heartattack and Vine named after the Tom Waits album, has been serving up good vibes since 2014. By day, it’s a bustling café, but by night, it transforms into a cozy wine bar perfect for our speedy rendezvous. The intimate lighting, eclectic vinyl soundtrack, and rustic wooden interiors create an atmosphere that’s part Parisian café, part Melbourne cool. Don’t miss their signature “Negroni on tap” – it’s the perfect ice-breaker! Pro tip: Snag a spot near the window for prime people-watching opportunities between dates.

Johnny's Green Room: Love is in the Air (Literally)

Perched atop King & Godfree, Johnny’s Green Room rooftop bar offers breathtaking views of the Melbourne skyline – perfect for starry-eyed singles! Opened in 2018, it’s quickly become a Carlton icon. The open-air setting, festoon lighting, and lush greenery create a magical atmosphere for mingling. Their Aperol Spritz is legendary and pairs perfectly with the sunset (and potential new flame). Insider tip: If you’re feeling nervous, take a moment to admire the view – it’s a great conversation starter and a chance to catch your breath!

Prince Alfred Rooftop & Bar: Where Royal Romance Reigns

Prince Alfred Rooftop bar is a historic pub, dating back to 1926, got a trendy makeover in 2018. Now, it’s the perfect blend of old-school charm and modern flair. The rooftop bar is where the magic happens, with its retractable roof ensuring your love connection won’t be rained out. String lights, colourful murals, and a laid-back vibe make it easy to relax and be yourself. Try their “Love Potion” cocktail – it might just work! Hot tip: Arrive early and scope out the indoor areas too – they’re great for a more intimate chat if you hit it off with someone special.

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Lygon Street: A Slice of Romance

Picture this: you and your speed dating match, strolling hand-in-hand down the iconic Lygon Street. The air is filled with the aroma of freshly baked pizza and the sounds of animated Italian conversations. Stop by DOC Pizza & Mozzarella Bar for a slice of heaven (and maybe a slice of romance). As you savor the perfect margherita, you can debate whether pineapple belongs on pizza – a true test of compatibility! The lively atmosphere is perfect for breaking the ice, and who knows? You might just fall in love… with the tiramisu, at least. Best to visit in the early evening to soak in the vibrant street life. Trust me, it’s way better than awkwardly sharing popcorn at the movies!

Cinema Nova: Lights, Camera, Attraction!

For a date that’s equal parts cultured and cozy, look no further than Cinema Nova on Lygon Street. This isn’t your average multiplex – it’s a haven for film buffs and first-daters alike. Settle into the plush seats with your speed dating match and a choc-top ice cream (sharing optional but recommended). Whether you’re watching the latest arthouse flick or a classic rom-com, the intimate atmosphere is perfect for those “accidental” hand brushes. After the movie, head to the Nova Bar for a post-film debrief. Was the ending predictable? Was the cinematography breathtaking? Is your date as cute in the light as they were in the dark? These are the important questions, people! Pro tip: Aim for an evening screening to maximize the romantic vibes.

Melbourne Museum and Royal Exhibition Building: Culture Vultures Unite

For a date that screams “I’m intellectually curious and probably own more than one turtleneck”, head to the Melbourne Museum and Royal Exhibition Building. Wander through the exhibits, pointing out your favorite dinosaurs (bonus points if you can pronounce their names correctly). The beautiful architecture of the Royal Exhibition Building is the perfect backdrop for some subtle flirting – nothing says romance like discussing the intricacies of 19th-century design, right? Afterward, take a leisurely stroll through the Carlton Gardens. If the date’s going well, find a cozy spot on the grass and play a game of “spot the possums”. It’s like a wildlife safari, but with more potential for a goodnight kiss. Visit on a weekday afternoon for a quieter, more intimate experience. Who knows? You might just make history together!

How It Works

Ever wanted to try or wondered how a speed dating event works? It’s easy, just follow these 6 steps:

Book A Ticket

Simply book a ticket through our website or Eventbrite to secure your spot

Hosts Greet You

Turn up and be greeted by friendly hosts who help scan you into our matching portal

Get Your Own Table

Be assigned your own table where you can comfortably mingle one on one

Enjoy 12 Fun Mini Dates

Be rotated every 5 minutes and enjoy 12 fast 5minute dates

Tick Yes To Anyone On Your Phone

Anonymously tick yes on anyone you like from your phone

Matches Sent The Next Day

Receive your matches and contact details of everyone who selects you the next day

Speed Dating Age Ranges: Because Love Has No Age Limit

Love knows no age, and neither does Carlton’s speed dating scene! Whether you’re a fresh-faced uni student or a seasoned silver fox, there’s a speed dating event tailored just for you. Let’s dive into the different age groups and see what each has to offer:

Over 50s Speed Dating: Love Has No Expiration Date

Who says romance is just for the young? Our Over 50s events in Carlton are as lively as a Friday night at Jimmy Watson’s Wine Bar! You’ll meet a diverse crowd of vibrant singles, from retired professors who could give you a personal tour of Melbourne Museum to entrepreneurs starting their second act faster than Carlton Football Club changes coaches. We often host these events at The Great Northern Hotel on Rathdowne Street – its classic pub charm is perfect for breaking the ice. Forget Tinder, this is where the real action happens for the young at heart! For a follow-up date, why not challenge your new flame to a game of bocce at the Italian Historical Society? Or take a romantic stroll through the Carlton Gardens, sharing stories as colorful as the autumn leaves. Remember, at this age, you know what you want – whether it’s a travel companion for that European river cruise or someone to share Sunday roasts with at The Lincoln. So come along, be yourself, and who knows? Your next great adventure might be just around the corner!

Over 40s Speed Dating: Where Experience Meets New Beginnings

Calling all 40-somethings! Our events for you are as robust as a perfectly aged Shiraz from Jimmy Watson’s. You’ll mingle with an eclectic mix of professionals, from lecturers at the University of Melbourne to creative types from the Carlton arts scene. We love hosting these events at The Clyde Hotel on Cardigan Street – its blend of historic charm and modern vibe mirrors the perfect 40s mix of wisdom and vitality. While your Bumble profile might showcase your best angles, nothing beats the spark of in-person chemistry. For date ideas, how about a cooking class at The Essential Ingredient on Elgin Street? Or challenge each other to a game of chess in the leafy University Square? At this stage in life, you’re looking for someone who complements your established world – maybe a running partner for those morning jogs around Princes Park, or a fellow food enthusiast to explore Lygon Street’s culinary delights. Don’t let your age make you hesitant – your best chapters might still be unwritten, and the perfect co-author could be waiting at our next event!

20s & 30s Speed Dating: Where Carlton's Young Hearts Connect

Alright, young guns, listen up! Our 20s & 30s events in Carlton are hotter than a freshly baked pizza from DOC Espresso. You’ll be mixing and mingling with a crowd as diverse as the craft beer selection at The Great Northern Hotel. From up-and-coming artists fresh out of VCA to tech whizzes from Carlton Connect Innovation Precinct, the possibilities are endless. We often throw these shindigs at Seven Seeds on Berkeley Street – its hip, industrial vibe is perfect for you cool cats. Sure, you could keep swiping on Hinge, but why not give your thumb a rest and make some real-life connections? For a killer follow-up date, how about a vintage film at Cinema Nova followed by late-night gelato at Pidapipo? Or show off your skills (or lack thereof) at the Carlton Baths rock climbing wall? At this age, you’re probably juggling career ambitions with a desire for meaningful connections. Whether you’re looking for a partner in crime for Carlton Blues matches or someone to split a Lygon Street pasta with, we’ve got you covered. So put down that phone, spruce yourself up, and come meet your potential soulmate – or at least someone to share a laugh and a drink with!

Frequently Asked Questions

Alright, Carlton singles, let’s talk threads! For the ladies, you can’t go wrong with a chic cocktail dress from Micky In The Van on Elgin Street. Gents, opt for smart casual – think a crisp button-down and well-fitted trousers from Dejour Jeans on Sydney Road (technically Brunswick, but close enough). Avoid anything too flashy or uncomfortable – you want to focus on your dates, not your outfit. Accessories can be conversation starters, so don’t shy away from that quirky Melbourne Museum pin or Carlton Blues scarf. Remember, confidence is the best accessory, so wear something that makes you feel like a million bucks. After all, you’re not just dressing to impress – you’re dressing for success in the Carlton dating scene!

Picture this: 40 hopeful singles, all ready to mingle in the heart of Carlton. We’re talking a mix of locals and folks from neighboring Parkville and Brunswick, creating a melting pot of personalities. We aim for a 50:50 ratio of men to women, but let’s be real – life happens. With up to 15% no-shows (hey, even Cupid gets stage fright), we overbook to 50 people. So, you’re typically looking at about 20 gents and 20 ladies. Don’t worry, though – even if your soulmate calls in sick, you’ll still have plenty of mini-dates to keep you busy. It’s like Tinder, but with actual face-to-face conversations. Revolutionary, right?

Want to find your perfect match in Carlton? Start by chatting about local hotspots like the Carlton Gardens or the latest exhibition at the Ian Potter Museum. Maybe you’re both film buffs? Suggest catching an indie flick at Cinema Nova. If you’re more the sporty type, bring up the Carlton Blues or the local Ultimate Frisbee league at Princes Park. The key is to use these topics as springboards for deeper conversations. “Oh, you love the Blues too? How about we catch their next game at the Prince Alfred Hotel?” Boom! You’ve just lined up a potential first date. Remember, common interests are the building blocks of any great relationship – or at least a fun Saturday afternoon in Carlton!

Carlton’s speed dating scene is as diverse as the toppings at DOC Pizza & Mozzarella Bar! You’ll find savvy professionals from the nearby Royal Women’s Hospital, bright-eyed students from the University of Melbourne, and dedicated teachers from Carlton Gardens Primary School. Our events attract a mix of Carlton locals, trendy Brunswick hipsters, and ambitious types from Parkville. Carlton itself is known for its blend of Italian charm and academic flair, so expect a crowd that’s equal parts passionate and intellectual. Whether you’re looking for a casual hookup or your future life partner, you’ll find all types here. It’s like a human buffet, and you get to sample it all!

Let’s keep it real – speed dating isn’t all rainbows and instant connections. For starters, if you live more than an hour’s drive from Carlton, you might want to reconsider. Long-distance relationships are tough, and we’re not here to set you up for heartbreak. Also, our events are 18+ only (sorry, youngsters – blame the bar venues). No-shows can be a bummer, but we’ve got you covered with a 5-minute chill time to grab a drink or update your Instagram. The pressure to make a stellar first impression in just five minutes can be intense – it’s not exactly ideal for us introverts or slow burners. And let’s face it, sometimes it can feel like a looks-based popularity contest. But hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?

Picture this: you’re at the cozy Heartattack and Vine on Lygon Street, surrounded by other hopeful singles. That’s speed dating in Carlton for you! It’s like Tinder in real life, but with actual conversation and less swiping. You’ll have 12 five-minute chats, just enough time to decide if you want to swipe right (er, I mean, tick ‘yes’) on your Matching App 4.0. It’s a whirlwind of mini-dates, giving you a chance to meet more potential partners in one night than you probably would in a month of regular dating. Fun fact: this love-inducing concept was born in 1998 when Rabbi Yaacov Deyo played matchmaker for Jewish singles in LA. Who knew speed dating had such holy origins?

Does speed dating work? Well, does a Carlton Blues fan love their footy? The short answer is: absolutely! Research shows there’s a 69% likelihood of reciprocity in liking – that’s better odds than swiping right on dating apps! Many participants experience mutual attraction during these events, proving that sometimes, all you need is five minutes to spark a connection. It’s like a real-life version of “The Bachelor,” minus the roses and drama. Plus, you get to meet multiple potential partners in one night – efficiency at its finest! So, whether you’re looking for your soulmate or just want to expand your dating pool, speed dating in Carlton could be your ticket to romantic success. Who knows? Your perfect match might be just a few mini-dates away!

Calling all Christian singles in Carlton! Yes, we’ve got speed dating events that’ll have you praising the heavens. These gatherings are perfect for meeting like-minded individuals who share your faith, whether you’re Catholic, Anglican, or part of the Uniting Church. It’s like Christian Mingle, but with face-to-face interactions – revolutionary, right? We use terms like “equally yoked” and “God-centered relationship” here, so you’ll feel right at home. While apps like Salt or CDFF (Christian Dating For Free) are great, nothing beats in-person chemistry. After the event, why not suggest a follow-up date at the beautiful St Jude’s Church on Lygon Street? Who knows, you might just find your God-given soulmate!

Ni hao, Carlton singles! Our Asian speed dating events are hotter than a bowl of laksa from Norsiah’s Kitchen on Grattan Street. We welcome folks from all Asian backgrounds – Chinese, Indian, Vietnamese, Korean, you name it! It’s the perfect place to find someone who understands the importance of filial piety and can appreciate a good bubble tea. Speaking of which, Gotcha Fresh Tea on Swanston Street makes for a great first date spot! These events often take place at Shin Yokohama on Lygon Street – try their sake for some liquid courage. It’s like using Eastmeet East or Tantan, but with real-life interactions. So, put down your chopsticks and pick up some great conversations – your future partner might be just a mini-date away!