Jewish Speed Dating in Melbourne
We host Jewish speed dating nights in Melbourne, Brunswick and the South Eastern Suburbs. Just like a Shadchan, we’ll help find your Bashert in person while paying special respect to Niddah. So come meet 12 Jewish Singles at our dating event, and be introduced to your next soulmate, and take those sacred steps to Kiddushin.
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Calling all Jewish singles in Melbourne and Victoria. If you’re unattached, still haven’t met your long term partner at the Synagogue or just want that special someone to take to Rosh Hashanah or Hanukkah, then listen up!
Unlike JDAte, we’re not a Jewish dating app, instead we host singles events in Melbourne so you can meet others with your faith in God. So before you break the glass, come meet them in person at our Jewish singles nights and join our next event.
Join our Jewish speed dating event. With up to 40 attendees, meet your next romantic partner on the Shabbat at Melbourne’s best bars and Synagogues. Grab your Yarmulke, and wear someone nice, as we embark upon 12 mini dates.
There’ll be time to mingle before the event, with nibbles like Challah and ice breaker games. During each event the ladies sit while men rotate every 5 minutes. Whenever you like someone tick yes, then hopefully one day you can declare your love under the Chuppah.
Our Venues
The Star of David Hall, Caulfield: Located in the heart of Caulfield, The Star of David Hall is a venue rich in cultural heritage, perfectly aligning with the traditions of Jewish speed dating. The hall features elegant décor with tasteful Judaic art, providing a warm and inviting atmosphere. The signature drink, “Mazel Tov Martini,” enhances the celebratory mood of the evenings. Originally a Jewish community center, the hall was renovated by local philanthropist Jacob Goldstein, creating a blend of tradition and modernity that enriches each event.
Beth Shalom Lounge, St Kilda: This cozy lounge is situated in the vibrant suburb of St Kilda and is known for its intimate setting, which is ideal for meaningful conversations. The décor includes subtle Israeli motifs and soft, ambient lighting that sets a romantic tone. The “Shalom Spritz,” a refreshing cocktail with hints of pomegranate and mint, is a favorite among attendees. The transformation from a historical synagogue to a modern social venue by entrepreneur Rachel Cohen offers an inviting atmosphere that fosters connections among our Jewish singles.
Zion Gardens, Brighton: Tucked away in Brighton, Zion Gardens is an idyllic venue with a beautiful outdoor area surrounded by lush greenery and floral arrangements, symbolizing new beginnings. The garden’s tranquility is perfect for those who prefer a peaceful dating environment. The specialty drink here is the “Zion Zest,” a mix of citrus flavors that complements the serene setting. Previously a botanical study center, it was reimagined by its current owner, Eli Levy, to host social gatherings, providing a natural, relaxed backdrop for our events.
Who You'll Meet
Our attendees are primarily Jewish singles from diverse backgrounds and walks of life, including professionals, creatives, and academics, all united by their cultural and religious heritage. They value tradition, family, and meaningful connections, which are the core elements of our events. Unlike general dating apps, our Jewish speed dating events offer a space to meet others who share similar values and life goals, encouraging deeper, more genuine interactions.
How it Works
Upon booking a ticket via Eventbrite, attendees select their preferred age group—20s, 30s, 40s, or over 50s. At the event, participants receive a name card and scan a QR code to access the Matching App 4.0. After mingling at the bar, the structured speed dating begins, with women seated and men rotating every five minutes. A 10-minute intermission allows for a break before the second round of dates. Participants then use their phones to select who they would like to ‘Match’ or ‘Friend’, with contact details exchanged the following morning.
About Speed Dating Social
Founded in 2020 by Darcy Todd, Speed Dating Social has successfully hosted over 787 events, introducing more than 37,423 singles. Our Jewish speed dating events, accommodating 40 attendees per session, ensure a balanced gender ratio for a fair and enjoyable experience. Tickets are $29.90 for early birds and $34.90 for last release. Note that refunds are not provided within 30 days of an event. For more information, contact us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com.
Post Event Epping Date Night Ideas
After a successful match, consider a visit to the National Gallery of Victoria for an artistic and cultural exploration, or enjoy a quiet evening at the St Kilda Pier, offering a scenic view and a chance to continue the conversation in a picturesque setting. Both locations provide a wonderful atmosphere for a memorable second date.
Attendee Reviews
Jewish speed dating is important for several reasons, deeply rooted in Jewish culture and traditions
Maintaining Cultural Heritage
Jewish speed dating events provide a structured format for Jewish singles to meet and interact, ensuring that cultural heritage and traditions are upheld. By fostering connections within the Jewish community, these events help preserve important customs and practices, such as celebrating Shabbat, Hanukkah, and other Jewish holidays together.
Shared Values and Beliefs
Participants in Jewish dating events share common values and beliefs, which are essential for building strong relationships. Concepts like Tikkun Olam (repairing the world), Chesed (acts of kindness), and the observance of Mitzvot (commandments or good deeds) are central to Jewish life and can form a solid foundation for long term relationships and marriage.
Religious and Spiritual Compatibility
Finding a partner who understands and respects Jewish religious practices, such as keeping Kosher dietary laws, attending synagogue, and participating in rituals like Havdalah and the observance of Niddah, is crucial for many Jewish singles. Jewish singles events provides an opportunity to meet others who are equally committed to these traditions.
Community and Social Networks
Jewish singles nights helps to strengthen community ties by bringing together singles who are part of the same cultural and religious community. Events like these foster a sense of belonging and support, which are essential elements of Jewish life, as seen in the importance of communal gatherings and celebrations such as Simchas (joyous events).
Facilitating Traditional Matchmaking
In traditional Jewish communities, a matchmaker or Shadchanim plays a significant role in helping individuals find their Bashert (destined one or soulmate). These days Jewish speed dating modernizes this tradition by providing a space where singles can meet potential partners face to face, much like the process of Shidduch (matchmaking).
Promoting Family and Continuity
Our Jewish events support the continuity of Jewish families and communities by encouraging marriages within the same faith. This is reflected incustoms like the Chuppah (wedding canopy), Ketubah (marriage contract), and Sheva Brachot (seven blessings), which symbolize the beginning of a new Jewish family and the passing on of traditions to future generations.
In summary, Jewish speed dating is vital for preserving cultural heritage, ensuring religious compatibility, strengthening community bonds, and promoting the continuity of Jewish traditions and values. Our events provide a meaningful way for Jewish singles to connect and potentially form lifelong partnerships rooted in their shared faith and culture.
Jewish Dating FAQs
What are the rules for Jewish dating?
As you start dating, focus on respect, honesty, and finding a meaningful relationship aimed at marriage. Embrace the Shidduch system and family involvement for support. Observe modesty (Tzniut) and maintain physical boundaries (Negiah). Plan dates around Shabbat and kosher laws, ensuring shared values and religious beliefs are prioritized. Uphold privacy and discretion until engagement. Remember, Jewish dating is about building a strong, committed future, guided by faith and traditions like family purity (Taharat HaMishpacha).
What is the best dating site for Jewish singles?
If you’re a new Jewish single looking to start dating, consider using JDate, SawYouAtSinai, JSwipe, or Jewish Match. JDate is popular for its wide range of users across all Jewish denominations. SawYouAtSinai combines online dating with traditional matchmaking. JSwipe is a mobile app with a user-friendly interface, perfect for on-the-go dating. Jewish Match offers various tools for meaningful connections. Choose the platform that aligns with your preferences, and focus on finding a partner who shares your values and traditions.
Was speed dating invented by a rabbi?
Yes, speed dating was indeed invented by a rabbi. Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah, a Jewish organization, is credited with creating speed dating in 1998. The concept was developed as a way for Jewish singles to meet and connect in a structured, time-efficient manner. Rabbi Deyo introduced it as part of a program to help young Jewish professionals find potential marriage partners while maintaining traditional values and community connections. The first event took place in Los Angeles, and the idea quickly gained popularity, spreading to various communities and cultures worldwide.