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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 34-47yrs

Join our Speed Dating Event for ages 34-47 years on May 17, 2025, at Diesel bar in Melbourne. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted byΒ Speed Dating SocialΒ πŸ’™

OverΒ 787 eventsΒ & 37,423 attendeesΒ 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

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Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day βœ…

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

34-47yrs Speed Dating Social πŸ’™

(+/- 2 years is okay) πŸ₯‚

5pm Saturday 17th May, Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat β›΅

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick β€˜yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❀️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees βœ…

Each Week I Spend Thousands on AdsΒ 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet βœ”

Whatever You’re Looking ForΒ 

They’re Only One 5min Chat AwayΒ 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories πŸ’‘

Many have already found love ❀️

β€œWhen I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

β€œI just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time βœ…

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your PhoneΒ 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For YouΒ 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos πŸ“Έ

Event Details

Speed dating is where modern romance meets efficiencyβ€”five-minute conversations that could change your life forever, especially designed for Melbourne singles aged 34-47 who are tired of swiping through dating app profiles that never quite capture the real person. Being single in Melbourne’s bustling metropolis can feel paradoxically isolating; you’re surrounded by thousands of people daily but making meaningful connections feels like finding a parking spot on Lygon Street during dinner rush. Our next event takes place at the stylish Diesel Bar, conveniently located at 202 Little Lonsdale St in Melbourne’s CBD, just a short walk from Melbourne Central Station or catch the 86 or 96 tram to stop 7 for an even closer drop-off. Dress to impress but keep it approachableβ€”smart casual is the sweet spot, with gents perhaps finding the perfect button-down at Incu on Flinders Lane and ladies possibly discovering that perfect cocktail dress at Gorman on Bourke Street. Whether you’re coming from the artsy enclaves of Fitzroy with your slightly hipster sensibilities or the polished professionals of South Yarra bringing their refined tastes, this central location creates a melting pot of Melbourne’s diverse dating pool that makes for fascinating conversations right from the first “hello.”

How It Works

Your evening unfolds like a well-crafted Melbourne coffeeβ€”methodical yet exciting, with each step designed to maximize your chances of finding that perfect blend. Upon arrival, you’ll receive your name card and access to our proprietary Matching App 4.0, with ladies taking their seats at numbered tables while gentlemen prepare for rotation throughout the evening. The structure offers 12 five-minute dates between 7-9pm, with our hosts providing ice breakers if conversation stalls, plus an 8pm intermission to refresh your drink and collect your thoughts. The real magic happens after the event when you indicate your interest in the app; mutual matches receive each other’s contact details at 8am the next morning, eliminating that awkward “rejection in real-time” scenario that makes traditional dating so anxiety-inducing. Our carefully crafted conversation cards prevent those dreaded silent moments, prompting discussions more meaningful than the typical “what do you do?” queries that dominate first meetings. Unlike dating apps where people can hide behind carefully curated photos and bios (we’ve all been catfished at least once, right?), you’ll meet exactly who you see, with our strict 40-person limit ensuring an equal ratio of 20 men and 20 women, giving everyone fair opportunity to find their perfect match without the gender imbalance that plagues so many Melbourne dating scenes.

Who You’ll Meet

The 34-47 age group at our events tends to attract an interesting mix of established professionals who’ve built something of themselves but aren’t willing to settle just because society’s ticking clock suggests they should. You’ll meet people who’ve survived the trenches of Melbourne’s property market and have stories about their renovation nightmares, entrepreneurs who’ve launched their passion projects after years in corporate roles, divorcees embarking on second chances with hard-earned wisdom, and never-marrieds who focused on career or travel before deciding to prioritize partnership. The dating challenges for this group in Melbourne often center around limited social circles (you’ve already met all your friends’ single friends), busy schedules making traditional dating inefficient, and the desire for partners with similar life experiences and values. Our speed dating format efficiently addresses these hurdles by introducing you to twenty potential matches in one eveningβ€”that’s more new connections than most people make in a year of organic socializing! For best results, come with an open mind but clear dealbreakers, focus on asking questions that reveal values rather than resumes, and remember that genuine interest is more attractive than impressive achievements. If you hit it off with someone, suggest a second date at the nearby State Library Victoriaβ€”its magnificent La Trobe Reading Room provides both architectural awe and plenty of conversation starters, plus it shows you’re culturally minded without the pressure of a dinner date.

Your Host

Speed Dating Social, founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, has successfully hosted over 787 events, introducing more than 37,423 singles. We pride ourselves on maintaining equal ratios of men and women at every event, ensuring a balanced and enjoyable experience for all.Β 

Tickets are affordably priced at $29.90 for early birds and $34.90 for last-minute decisions. Please note that we don’t offer refunds within 30 days of an event to maintain fairness for all attendees. If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to our team atΒ matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

Diesel Bar stands as one of Melbourne’s hidden gems, a sophisticated venue with industrial-chic styling featuring exposed brick walls, warm ambient lighting, and comfortable seating that creates the perfect balance between intimate and social. This renovated warehouse at 202 Little Lonsdale Street dates back to the 1920s and was transformed into a bar in 2008 by the Grossi family, who have maintained its historical charm while updating it with modern amenities. The unique mezzanine level overlooking the main bar area creates natural conversation divisions for our speed dating events, allowing for private conversations despite the venue being at capacity. Their signature “Match Maker” cocktail (a zesty blend of Melbourne Gin Company spirit, local elderflower liqueur, lime, and topped with Yarra Valley sparkling) makes the perfect ice-breakerβ€”order one before the event begins to calm those pre-date jitters. Speed dating at Diesel has a distinctly Melbourne vibe: sophisticated yet unpretentious, with the venue’s central location and ambient noise level creating the perfect atmosphere for getting to know someone without shouting or awkward silences. After the event, you might mention Federation Square’s night markets to a promising matchβ€”this iconic Melbourne landmark hosts evening artisan markets on Wednesdays, providing a perfect casual second date opportunity where you can continue conversations while browsing local crafts and sampling street food, all with the safety and comfort of a public space that still allows for moments of connection.

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female ticketsΒ 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

Last places available

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