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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 32-55yrs

Join our Melbourne Speed Dating Event for ages 32-55 years on May 24, 2025, at Diesel Bar & Eatery. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted by Speed Dating Social 💙

Over 787 events & 37,423 attendees 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day ✅

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

32-55yrs Speed Dating Social 💙

(+/- 2 years is okay) 🥂

5pm Saturday 24 May, Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat ⛵

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick ‘yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❤️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees ✅

Each Week I Spend Thousands on Ads 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet ✔

Whatever You’re Looking For 

They’re Only One 5min Chat Away 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories 💑

Many have already found love ❤️

“When I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

“I just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time ✅

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your Phone 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For You 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos 📸

Event Details

Speed dating is like Melbourne’s laneway coffee scene – quick, intense, and potentially life-changing. If you’re between 32-55 and tired of swiping through dating apps like they’re Melbourne’s unpredictable weather patterns, our in-person speed dating event at Diesel Bar & Eatery (202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000) might just be your perfect match. Melbourne’s dating scene can feel as crowded yet disconnected as peak hour on the 86 tram, which conveniently stops just 100 meters from our venue at the Melbourne Central Station. For this evening of potential connections, smart casual is the way to go – gentlemen, perhaps a crisp button-down from the Emporium Melbourne, and ladies, something comfortable yet stylish from David Jones in Bourke Street Mall. Whether you’re coming from the artsy vibes of Fitzroy or the upscale atmosphere of South Yarra, you’ll find yourself among like-minded singles ready to connect beyond the constraints of dating profiles and awkward app messages.

How It Works

Our speed dating format makes meeting multiple potential matches as easy as ordering a flat white in Melbourne – straightforward, satisfying, and without the anxiety of extended awkward silences. Upon arrival, you’ll receive a name tag and access to our Matching App 4.0, with ladies remaining seated while gentlemen rotate every five minutes when our signature bell rings (think Melbourne’s iconic tram bell, but more romantic). The evening runs from 7-9pm, featuring 12 five-minute dates with thoughtfully designed ice breakers to get the conversation flowing more smoothly than the Yarra River on a calm day. We break at 8pm for a quick intermission – a chance to refresh your drink and gather your thoughts before the second round. After the event, simply indicate who caught your eye on our app, and by 8am the next morning, you’ll receive the contact details of everyone who also selected you – no awkward rejections, just mutual connections. Our conversation cards help spark discussions more interesting than “What do you do?” (though comparing notes on favorite Melbourne cafés is always a winner), making this experience infinitely more effective than months of app dating where ghosting is more common than finding parking in the CBD.

Who You’ll Meet

Our attendees are typically accomplished professionals who’ve built impressive careers but haven’t quite mastered the art of finding someone who appreciates both their independence and desire for connection. You’ll meet doctors from The Royal Melbourne Hospital, creative directors from agencies in the CBD, entrepreneurs who’ve launched startups in Richmond, and educators from Melbourne’s prestigious universities. They’re at a life stage where they’ve established themselves professionally but are ready to share their Melbourne adventures with someone special – from exploring hidden cocktail bars to weekend getaways along the Great Ocean Road. The dating challenges for this age group in Melbourne often revolve around limited social circles and busy schedules that make spontaneous meetings unlikely (unless you count making eye contact while ordering your morning coffee at Market Lane). For successful speed dating, we recommend being genuinely curious about others, asking questions that reveal values rather than just hobbies, and keeping conversation light yet meaningful – much like discussing whether Smith & Daughters or Tipo 00 serves better pasta without starting a foodie war. If sparks fly, suggest a second date at the NGV’s latest exhibition – it provides both conversation starters and peaceful moments to connect more deeply.

Your Host

Speed Dating Social was founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, when Melbourne’s lockdowns made singles realize just how much they missed in-person connections that no amount of Zoom dating could replace. Since then, we’ve hosted 787 events and introduced 37,423 singles across Australia, with countless success stories that warm our hearts more than a perfectly made mulled wine at a winter night market. We maintain a strict equal ratio policy – every event has exactly the same number of men and women (typically 20 of each), ensuring no one feels like they’re competing in an unbalanced dating market. Tickets start at $29.90 for early birds who, like savvy Melburnians hunting for the best brunch spots, know the value of planning ahead. Last-release tickets are $34.90, and while we understand plans change faster than Melbourne’s weather, our no-refund policy helps maintain those perfect ratios. Questions? Our team is more responsive than a barista when you’ve ordered a magic – just email matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

Diesel Bar & Eatery isn’t just another Melbourne venue – it’s a beautifully restored 1920s building that once housed a printing press, now transformed into one of Little Lonsdale Street’s best-kept secrets. With its exposed brick walls, warm lighting that flatters everyone (no harsh fluorescents here!), and a perfectly balanced sound system that allows for conversation without shouting, it creates an atmosphere more conducive to connection than any dating app could hope to achieve. The venue is owned by Melbourne hospitality veterans Marco and Sophia, who understand the importance of creating spaces where strangers can become something more. Their unique touch includes conversation-starter coasters with quirky Melbourne trivia and strategic seating arrangements that feel intimate without being cramped. We recommend trying their signature “Meet Cute” cocktail – a delightful concoction featuring Four Pillars Gin that’s as smooth as your best opening line. Speed dating at Diesel has a different energy than our other venues – perhaps it’s the heritage-listed charm or the fact that you’re dating in the same neighborhood where Melbourne’s most famous love stories have unfolded for generations. When conversation turns to “what should we do next time,” suggest a wander through the nearby State Library Victoria’s La Trobe Reading Room – its stunning architecture and peaceful atmosphere make for an impressive second date that shows you appreciate Melbourne’s cultural treasures as much as its bar scene.

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female tickets 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

 

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

Last places available

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