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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 31-47yrs

Join our Speed Dating Event for ages 31-47 years on September 14, 2024, at Diesel Bar & Eatery in Melbourne’s CBD. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted byΒ Speed Dating SocialΒ πŸ’™

OverΒ 787 eventsΒ & 37,423 attendeesΒ 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale Street Melbourne, VIC 3000

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Finding it Hard to Meet Someone?

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Get 12 Fun Dates in 1 Night

Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

Popular with professionals & everyday people πŸ‘‡

What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day βœ…

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

31-47yrs Speed Dating Social πŸ’™

(+/- 2 years is okay) πŸ₯‚

5pm Saturday 14th September, Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat β›΅

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick β€˜yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❀️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees βœ…

Each Week I Spend Thousands on AdsΒ 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet βœ”

Whatever You’re Looking ForΒ 

They’re Only One 5min Chat AwayΒ 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories πŸ’‘

Many have already found love ❀️

β€œWhen I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

β€œI just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time βœ…

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your PhoneΒ 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For YouΒ 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos πŸ“Έ

Event Details

Are you ready to dive into the exciting world of speed dating? If you’re a single professional aged 31-47 looking for love in Melbourne, you’re in for a treat! Welcome to the “Midlife Mingles” speed dating event at Diesel Bar & Eatery, where romance meets efficiency in the heart of the city. Being single in Melbourne can be both exhilarating and overwhelming, with its bustling laneways and hidden bars offering endless possibilities for chance encounters. But why leave it to chance when you can meet like-minded singles in a structured, fun environment?Β 

Located at 202 Little Lonsdale St, Diesel Bar & Eatery is the perfect backdrop for our speed dating soirΓ©e. Easily accessible by public transport, just hop on the 86 or 96 tram and alight at the Melbourne Central station. For the fashion-conscious, swing by Emporium Melbourne to grab a chic outfit that’ll make you stand out. You’ll be rubbing shoulders with singles from neighboring suburbs like Carlton and Fitzroy, creating a diverse mix of urban professionals eager to connect.

How It Works

As you arrive at the venue, you’ll be greeted by our friendly hosts who’ll provide you with a name card and guide you through the process of scanning the QR code for our cutting-edge Matching App 4.0. This nifty tool allows you to see a list of all attendees right on your phone – talk about a tech-savvy way to break the ice! After some initial mingling at the bar, ladies take their seats while the gents rotate every 5 minutes, giving you 12 exciting mini-dates throughout the evening.Β 

The best part? You can discreetly select ‘Match’ or ‘Friend’ on your app, and if the feeling’s mutual, you’ll receive their contact details at 8am the next day. It’s like having your own personal Cupid in your pocket! With an equal ratio of 20 men to 20 women, you’re guaranteed to have someone to chat with, unlike the endless swiping on dating apps that often leads nowhere. Plus, our ice breaker games and conversation cards ensure you’ll never run out of things to say.

Who You’ll Meet

So, who exactly will you meet at “Midlife Mingles”? These are accomplished professionals in their prime, juggling successful careers with a desire for meaningful connections. Many have tried online dating platforms like Tinder or eHarmony but crave the authenticity of face-to-face interactions. They’re at a stage in life where they know what they want – whether it’s a long-term relationship or a compatible partner to share adventures with.Β 

Common challenges include limited time for dating due to work commitments and navigating the dating scene after divorce or as single parents. Our speed dating events offer a solution, providing a curated experience that cuts through the noise of modern dating. Pro tip: Be open, authentic, and don’t be afraid to show your quirky side – it’s often what makes you memorable! And if you hit it off with someone special, why not suggest a second date at the nearby State Library Victoria? Nothing says romance like whispering sweet nothings among the bookshelves!

Your Host

Founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, Speed Dating Social has become a cornerstone of Melbourne’s dating scene, hosting over 787 events and introducing more than 37,423 singles. Our secret sauce? We always ensure equal ratios of men and women, guaranteeing a balanced and engaging experience for all participants.Β 

Early bird tickets are a steal at $29.90, with last-release tickets priced at $34.90. While we can’t offer refunds, we can promise an unforgettable evening that might just change your love life forever. For any queries, our dedicated team is just an email away atΒ matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

Diesel Bar & Eatery isn’t just any venue – it’s a Melbourne institution with a rich history. Originally a wool storage facility in the 1920s, it was transformed into a trendy bar and eatery in 2015 by hospitality mogul Paul Adamo. The industrial-chic interior, with its exposed brick walls and vintage machinery, creates a unique atmosphere that’s both intimate and exciting for speed dating. The mezzanine level offers a perfect vantage point for our hosts to oversee the event, while the cozy booths downstairs provide just the right amount of privacy for those mini-dates.Β 

Don’t miss their signature cocktail, the “Diesel Fueled Romance” – a spicy concoction that’s sure to break the ice and spark conversation. The venue’s eclectic mix of music, from smooth jazz to indie rock, keeps the energy high throughout the night. Pro tip: Arrive a few minutes early to soak in the ambiance and calm any pre-dating jitters. Remember, everyone’s in the same boat, and at Diesel Bar & Eatery, love might just be waiting around every corner!

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female ticketsΒ 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

Β 

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

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