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Sat, 16 May🕑2hrs

Melbourne Speed Dating Event 40-65yrs

Single? Want to meet new people? Come try our Melbourne Speed Dating Event for ages 40-65 years and get 12 fun mini dates in one night. If you’re over swiping, come along, be introduced and easily chat one on one in person. See what they're like, select who you like and meet someone today!

Speed Dating Social

Over 1287 events & 57,915 attendees

54 people already going

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Event Info

Sat, 16 May 2026

5:00 PM - 7:00 PM AEST

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

Single? ❤️

Over Dating Apps?

Instantly Get the Dates

Meet Someone Today!

All Your Friends in Relationships?

Finding it Hard to Meet Someone?

Are you Better at Talking in Person?

Get 12 Fun Dates in 1 Night

Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

Popular with professionals & everyday people

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up...

We do the rest for you

Be introduced to each date

So you can easily chat one on one

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Simply rotate every 5mins

Get paired & meet each other

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Easily meet new people,

And see what they're like

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day ✅

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

40-50 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

40-65yrs Speed Dating Social 💙

(+/- 2 years is okay) 🥂

5pm Saturday 16 May, Diesel Bar

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

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Melissa

6 reviews · 2 photos

3 weeks ago

First time doing swipe events and tbh i nearly bailed walking up to the bar lol, you click when you arrive in and it just tells you who to sit with. No awkward ‘so who do I talk to’ moments. Some convos were a bit clunky but a few were actually really fun. I wasnt sure what speed friending was but they just pair you one chat at a time to meet new people

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Patrick

8 reviews · 3 photos

1 year ago

Went Friday night after work and honestly nearly didn’t bother cause I was wrecked from the week. Glad I did. The app keeps telling you who your next chat is and I just followed along. Talked to 12 people some convos were awkward, a couple were really good. and still chatting with a few now, felt more like a night out with mates

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Chen

7 reviews

3 days ago

You see the ads and I’ve been to other events and over swiping and working from home so I went last night, felt a bit nervous and one of the guys was weird but made some nice girlfriends.

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Linh

3 reviews · 1 photo

2 months ago

Want to meet some new people, I am new to the city and worry about talking but everyone was very nice and lovely to meet some new people.

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Lauren

Local Guide · 12 reviews · 8 photos

1 month ago

Went with a friend, we were both nervous walking in but you just follow the app and it’s pretty simple. I had 12 chats, matched with 2 guys & 3 females, even met a new bestie and we've already met up for coffee. Honestly felt safer and more real than apps.

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Mila

4 reviews

1 week ago

Went midweek, didn’t know if it would be busy but there was a solid mix of people. The 7 minute chats go so quick, especially when you click with someone. I matched with two guys, one I didn’t expect to like at all but met some cool girlfriends too, it's just like a fun social networking event

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Bianca

Local Guide · 24 reviews · 43 photos

9 months ago

Went with a girlfriend, both of us single and bored of apps. It was actually fun, people were friendly & not weird, it's just meeting new guys and girls at a social event, no biggie. Stayed after with a small group and laughed for another hour.

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Kevin

5 reviews

5 months ago

Signed up cause my sister dared me. Didn’t expect much but it was actually good. Met 6 women and a few guys who work in the same industry as me. It's not strictly a singles night, more like just meet a bunch new people and see what happens.

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Nathan

2 reviews

3 months ago

Went in pretty skeptical but it worked better than I thought. I matched with 2 women and met 2 guys who also like gym who both seemed cool. Honestly it was worth it just for the convos, it’s good practice talking to people face to face instead of swiping.

Still Unsure?

We Get It,

It's the easiest way

To meet new people

Try a new experience

It's Okay to Feel Nervous

It's easy once the first chat starts

Every night you’ll meet 12 singles

Worst case, you'll make new friends

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat ⛵

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins we rotate everyone

You Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick ‘yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❤️

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It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Introduced to each new person

Find friends & new connections

Always Heaps of Attendees ✅

Each week I spend thousands

And keep ratios balanced 50:50

So there’s always plenty of people to meet ✓

Whatever You’re Looking For

They’re only one 5min chat away

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories 💖

Many have already found love 💕

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Jaimee

Success story

6 months ago

Just wanted to let you know Lucas & I started dating after this event and are still together. We live together now, and are actually back at Miranda Tequila Bar tonight on a date night - the place we met. Nearly 4 years in, crazy how time flies. Wouldn't have happened without the speed dating event - no way we'd have met otherwise! And we have a very cool "how we met" story. Thanks for organising Jaimee (& Lucas)

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Andrea

Success story

7 months ago

Hi team at speed dating social, My name is Andrea. I’m not sure if you’re interested, but my husband and I thought we’d share a success story with you! On March 31, 2023, my husband and I attended one of your speed dating events at Diesel Bar in Melbourne Central. We were complete strangers – I believe I was number 10, and Salvatore was number 19. Little did we know that night would be the beginning of our forever. We hit it off instantly, and those five minutes didn’t feel long enough for either of us. It was an instant yes on both sides. Two days later, I received a message from Salvatore. He didn’t want to seem too keen to set up a coffee date, so he organised one for two days later. We met for coffee, which turned into dinner, which turned into a good night kiss, and I’ll see you tomorrow. From there, we saw each other every day. We quickly knew what we had was something special and became “official” by the end of that week on April 9, 2023. Fast forward five and a half months to September 16, 2023. Here we were, with the moment we had been waiting for. Salvatore got down on one knee in front of a hot air balloon in the Yarra Valley at 5:30 am and asked me to be his wife. I couldn’t answer yes quickly enough. It was the easiest answer I could have ever made, regardless of the time we had been together. We just knew. We moved into our first home together in October 2024 and tied the knot on our love on March 9, 2025. Thank you for hosting these events. Thank you for helping bring us together. Because of this event, you brought two soulmates together, and we couldn’t be happier.

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Jane

Success story

1 year ago

When I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations – less than zero actually. But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous. I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs. At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same. We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success. You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs. – Jane

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Julie

Success story

1 year ago

I just wanted to let you know… That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in… I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go. So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard they are to get. thanks so much again Julie.

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Michael

Success story

2 years ago

I would like to let you know that last month, I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us. We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong. Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright. We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you. Michael

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time ✅

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your Phone

On arrival, scan our QR Code

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For You

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Last places available

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