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Sydney Speed Dating Event 30-55yrs

Join our Sydney Speed Dating Event for ages 30-55 years on May 16 2025, at Pumphouse Sydney. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted by Speed Dating Social 💙

Over 787 events & 37,423 attendees 

Date and time

Location

Pumphouse Sydney

17 Little Pier St, Darling Harbour NSW 2000

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day ✅

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

30-55yrs Speed Dating Social 💙

(+/- 2 years is okay) 🥂

7pm Friday 16 May, Pumphouse Sydney

17 Little Pier St, Darling Harbour NSW 2000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat ⛵

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick ‘yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❤️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees ✅

Each Week I Spend Thousands on Ads 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet ✔

Whatever You’re Looking For 

They’re Only One 5min Chat Away 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories 💑

Many have already found love ❤️

“When I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

“I just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time ✅

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your Phone 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For You 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos 📸

Event Details

Speed dating is like hitting the refresh button on your love life—a chance to meet multiple potential matches face-to-face in one evening rather than endless swiping through profiles that may or may not look like their owners in real life. If you’re between 30-55 and tired of Sydney’s notoriously challenging dating scene where everyone seems too busy building careers to build relationships, this could be your perfect match! Our upcoming event takes place at the historic Pumphouse Sydney (17 Little Pier St, Darling Harbour NSW 2000), just a three-minute walk from Town Hall Station or a quick ride on the L1 Light Rail to Convention Centre stop. Not sure what to wear? Smart casual is perfect—perhaps a new outfit from The Strand Arcade or Queen Victoria Building, both just a short stroll away. Whether you’re coming from neighboring Pyrmont with its relaxed waterfront vibe or bustling Surry Hills with its hipster energy, you’ll find yourself among like-minded locals looking for genuine connections without the digital barriers.

How It Works

The evening unfolds like a well-orchestrated dance: upon arrival, you’ll receive your name card and quick instructions on using our proprietary Matching App 4.0, where ladies remain seated while gentlemen rotate every five minutes—allowing for 12 five-minute dates between 7-9pm with handy conversation starters provided if you suddenly forget how to human. We kick things off with fun ice breakers, pause for a breather at our 8pm intermission (perfect timing to hit the bar), then continue until everyone has met everyone of the opposite gender. The magic happens overnight when our system processes your selections, and at 8am the next morning, you’ll receive contact details for anyone who also picked you—no awkward rejections, just mutual matches ready to take things further. Unlike dating apps where conversations fizzle out before meeting, you’ll have already established real-world chemistry with your 40 fellow attendees (20 men and 20 women, we’re strict about equal ratios) and skipped straight to the “do we click?” stage that normally takes weeks of message ping-pong.

Who You’ll Meet

Our 30-55 age group tends to attract professionals who know what they want—established in their careers but seeking that missing piece in their otherwise well-assembled lives. You’ll meet everyone from corporate high-flyers to creative entrepreneurs, all sharing that uniquely Sydney combination of ambition and laid-back charm. Dating in this age bracket in Sydney presents unique challenges: limited time between work commitments, social circles that have stabilized (meaning fewer new introductions), and the harbourside city’s geographical spread making spontaneous meetups difficult. Success at our events comes to those who bring their authentic selves, ask thoughtful questions beyond the usual “what do you do?”, and approach each mini-date with curiosity rather than a checklist. Many of our successful couples have followed their speed dating connection with a second date at the nearby SEA LIFE Sydney Aquarium—nothing breaks the ice quite like pointing out the resemblance between your boss and that puffer fish!

Your Host

Speed Dating Social was founded by relationship enthusiast Darcy Todd in 2020 when he realized technology was paradoxically making meaningful connections harder despite supposedly bringing people together. Since then, we’ve hosted 787 events and introduced 37,423 singles across Australia, maintaining our signature equal ratio policy through careful booking management—which is why our events often sell out quickly. Tickets start at $29.90 for early birds, with last-release tickets at $34.90 (unfortunately no refunds available, but tickets can be transferred to future events with notice). Any questions before or after the event? Our dedicated matchmakers are just an email away at matches@speeddatingsocial.com, ready to help you navigate your post-event connections or prepare for your first speed dating experience.

The Venue

The Pumphouse Sydney isn’t just any venue—it’s a beautifully restored 1891 heritage building that once powered Sydney’s first electrical street lighting system and now powers something even more electric: genuine human connection. Owned by the charismatic Jackson family since 2005, the venue retains its industrial charm with exposed brick walls and soaring timber beams while offering contemporary comfort and an intimate atmosphere perfect for making first impressions. The venue’s unique split-level design creates natural conversation spaces, and their signature “Spark” cocktail (a spicy passionfruit martini that lives up to its name) has been the catalyst for many successful matches. Speed dating here feels different from our other venues—something about the historical surroundings reminds attendees that meaningful connections have been happening in Sydney long before smartphones existed. During your dates, you might want to discuss the nearby Darling Quarter, which has transformed from industrial wasteland to vibrant community hub—much like how the right relationship can transform your life from routine to remarkable—and plan a second date exploring its famous night light installations if you make a match!

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female tickets 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

Last places available

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