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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 34-47yrs

Join ourΒ Speed DatingΒ Event for ages 34-47 years on February 22nd, 2025, at Diesel Bar & Eatery. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted byΒ Speed Dating SocialΒ πŸ’™

OverΒ 787 eventsΒ & 37,423 attendeesΒ 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

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Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

Popular with professionals & everyday people πŸ‘‡

What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day βœ…

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

34-47yrs Speed Dating Social πŸ’™

(+/- 2 years is okay) πŸ₯‚

7pm Saturday 22nd February, Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat β›΅

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick β€˜yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❀️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees βœ…

Each Week I Spend Thousands on AdsΒ 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet βœ”

Whatever You’re Looking ForΒ 

They’re Only One 5min Chat AwayΒ 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories πŸ’‘

Many have already found love ❀️

β€œWhen I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

β€œI just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time βœ…

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your PhoneΒ 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For YouΒ 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos πŸ“Έ

Event Details

Ready to swap those endless right swipes for real-life sparks? Welcome to Speed Dating Social’s signature event for singles aged 34-47, where Melbourne’s most eligible professionals are trading their dating apps for face-to-face connections at the iconic Diesel Bar & Eatery in the heart of the CBD. Being single in Melbourne can feel like searching for a flat white in Sydney – challenging but ultimately rewarding when you find the right match. Located at 202 Little Lonsdale Street, Diesel Bar is easily accessible via the 86 or 96 tram (hop off at Melbourne Central), or just a five-minute stroll from Parliament Station. Not sure what to wear? Keep it smart casual – gentlemen, swing by Jack London on Bourke Street for a crisp shirt, while ladies can find the perfect ensemble at Review in Melbourne Central. Whether you’re commuting from the creative hub of Brunswick or the leafy streets of South Yarra, you’ll find yourself among like-minded singles who understand the unique rhythm of Melbourne’s dating scene.

How It Works

Leave your dating app fatigue at the door because this is where real chemistry happens. Our tried-and-tested format kicks off at 5 PM sharp, where you’ll be equipped with name tags and access to our cutting-edge Matching App 4.0. Ladies, you’ll be comfortably seated while gents rotate every five minutes, giving you 12 unique chances to find that special someone. Instead of agonizing over the perfect opening message, you’ll have our signature conversation cards to break the ice naturally. We’ve structured the evening to include a strategic intermission at 8 PM – perfect for grabbing a drink and catching your breath. The best part? No more awkward “should I text first” moments – matches are revealed at 8 AM the next morning, sharing contact details only when there’s mutual interest. With a perfectly balanced ratio of 20 men and 20 women, your odds of finding a connection are significantly better than hoping your coffee barista finally notices you.

Who You’ll Meet

Our 35-49 age group brings together Melbourne’s most interesting singles – think creative professionals who’ve mastered their craft, entrepreneurs who can recommend the best coffee on Degraves Street, and corporate achievers who understand that life’s too short for bad dating experiences. Many attendees are balancing successful careers with the search for genuine connection, often navigating the challenges of Melbourne’s notorious work culture and the post-pandemic dating landscape. The key to success? Come prepared with stories about your favorite hidden laneway discoveries or controversial opinions about the best dumplings in Chinatown. Speaking from experience, those who share authentic insights about their Brunswick brunch spots or South Yarra cycling adventures tend to make the strongest connections. For a memorable second date, why not suggest a twilight visit to the NGV or a cocktail at Eau de Vie?

Your Host

Since our founding by Melbourne local Darcy Todd in 2020, Speed Dating Social has successfully introduced 37,423 singles across 787 events, maintaining our signature equal ratio booking policy that ensures a balanced and fair experience for everyone. Early birds catch more than the worm with our $29.90 special rate, while last-release tickets are available at $34.90. While we can’t offer refunds, we can promise an evening that beats scrolling through profiles any day. Questions? Our dedicated team is always ready to help at matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

Diesel Bar & Eatery isn’t just another Melbourne venue – it’s a carefully restored 1920s building that perfectly balances industrial chic with intimate comfort. The exposed brick walls and mood lighting create an atmosphere that’s sophisticated yet relaxed, perfect for meaningful conversations. The venue’s unique split-level design creates natural conversation nooks, while their signature espresso martinis (our recommended ice-breaker) have been known to spark more than a few love stories. The central location means you’re just steps away from the Paris end of Collins Street, offering the perfect excuse to suggest a follow-up date exploring the Block Arcade’s heritage architecture or sharing a macaron at Brunetti’s. Speed dating here feels less like a formal event and more like a gathering of friends at their favorite local spot, where the stories of Melbourne’s most interesting singles intertwine with the city’s rich cultural tapestry.

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female ticketsΒ 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

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If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

Last places available

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