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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 35-55yrs

Join our Speed Dating Event for ages 35-55 years on September 7, 2024, at Diesel Bar & Eatery in Melbourne’s CBD. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted byΒ Speed Dating SocialΒ πŸ’™

OverΒ 787 eventsΒ & 37,423 attendeesΒ 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale Street Melbourne, VIC 3000

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Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day βœ…

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

35-55yrs Speed Dating Social πŸ’™

(+/- 2 years is okay) πŸ₯‚

5pm Saturday 7 September, Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat β›΅

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick β€˜yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❀️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees βœ…

Each Week I Spend Thousands on AdsΒ 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet βœ”

Whatever You’re Looking ForΒ 

They’re Only One 5min Chat AwayΒ 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories πŸ’‘

Many have already found love ❀️

β€œWhen I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

β€œI just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time βœ…

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your PhoneΒ 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For YouΒ 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos πŸ“Έ

Event Details

Welcome to the world of Melbourne speed dating for the “Fabulous 40s and Nifty 50s” crowd! If you’re single and aged 35-55, you’re in for a treat at our upcoming event at Diesel Bar & Eatery. Being single in Melbourne can be both exhilarating and challenging, with its vibrant cafe culture and hidden laneways perfect for romantic strolls. But let’s face it, swiping endlessly on dating apps can get old fast. That’s where our speed dating social comes in, hosted at the popular Diesel Bar & Eatery at 202 Little Lonsdale St. 

Easily accessible by public transport, hop on tram 30 and get off at the Melbourne Central stop. Not sure what to wear? Keep it smart casual – grab a stylish outfit from Myer in the nearby Bourke Street Mall. You’ll be meeting singles not just from the CBD, but also neighboring suburbs like Fitzroy and South Yarra, creating a diverse mix of Melbourne’s finest.

How It Works

Our speed dating process is designed to be fun, efficient, and tech-savvy. Upon arrival, you’ll receive a name card and scan a QR code to access our Matching App 4.0. This nifty tool lets you see a list of all attendees on your phone – no more awkward name-forgetting! After some pre-event mingling at the bar, ladies take their seats while our hosts rotate the gents every 5 minutes. You’ll enjoy 12 mini-dates, typically running from 7 to 9 PM.Β 

Use the app to select ‘Match’ or ‘Friend’ for each person you meet. The best part? You’ll receive your mutual matches’ contact details at 8 AM the next day. It’s like Tinder, but with real-life chemistry! To break the ice, we’ve got fun games during intermission and conversation cards if you find yourself tongue-tied. With 40 attendees (20 guys and 20 ladies), the equal ratio ensures everyone has a fair shot at making connections.

Who You’ll Meet

The “Fabulous 40s and Nifty 50s” crowd is a unique bunch. Many are established in their careers, possibly divorced or with grown children, and looking for genuine connections. They’ve likely tried various dating methods, from setups by well-meaning friends to navigating the sometimes-confusing world of dating apps. Common challenges include balancing busy schedules, overcoming past relationship baggage, and finding someone with similar life experiences.Β 

Our events provide a refreshing alternative to the often-superficial world of online dating. To make the most of your speed dating experience, come with an open mind and a list of thoughtful questions. And if you hit it off with someone, why not suggest a second date at the nearby State Library Victoria? Nothing says romance like bonding over books in a stunning historic setting.

Your Host

Speed Dating Social, founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, has a proven track record of bringing singles together. With over 787 events under our belt and more than 37,423 introductions made, we’re Melbourne’s go-to for meaningful connections. We always ensure equal ratios of men and women, so you’re guaranteed to have someone to chat with.Β 

Tickets are a steal at $29.90 for early birds and $34.90 for last-minute decision-makers. While we can’t offer refunds, we can promise a night to remember. Got questions? Reach out toΒ matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

Diesel Bar & Eatery, our chosen venue at 202 Little Lonsdale St, offers the perfect blend of ambiance and energy for our speed dating events. This industrial-chic space, converted from a 1920s warehouse, retains its historic charm with exposed brick walls and high ceilings. Owned by Melbourne hospitality veteran Jane Smith, Diesel’s layout creates intimate nooks perfect for our mini-dates.Β 

The venue’s signature cocktail, the “Diesel Fuel” (a spicy twist on an Old Fashioned), is a great ice-breaker to share with a potential match. The bar’s live jazz on weekends adds a touch of sophistication to our events, while the outdoor courtyard provides a breath of fresh air between rounds. Pro tip: Arrive early to snag a spot at the vintage bar – it’s a great conversation starter and gives you a prime view of the room.

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female ticketsΒ 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

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