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Melbourne Speed Dating Event 32-55yrs

Join our Melbourne Speed Dating Event for ages 32-55 years on April 19, 2025, at Diesel Bar & Eatery. Meet new people and find your match with 12 fast blind dates at our singles party! Tickets from $29.90, don’t miss out!

Organiser

Hosted byΒ Speed Dating SocialΒ πŸ’™

OverΒ 787 eventsΒ & 37,423 attendeesΒ 

Date and time

Location

Diesel Bar & Eatery

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

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Let’s Get Out & Meet New People

And find someone to share your life!

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What is Speed Dating?

Simply Turn Up…

I’ll break the ice for you 🧊

So you can easily chat one on one

& use conversation cards if needed

Ladies Sit & Men Rotate

Be Greeted by Friendly Hosts

And Introduced to Each Date

Most Come Alone, or Invite Friends

That’s 12 Fun Mini Dates

Enjoy your privacy, I booked us the bar

There’s plenty of extra mingle time

Select Whoever You Like

Anonymously Tick Anyone You Fancy

So there’s no fear of rejection

94% get matches the next day βœ…

With Equally Booked Ratios

There’s plenty of people to meet

30-40 attendees at each event!

Most book early, so don’t miss out

32-55yrs Speed Dating Social πŸ’™

(+/- 2 years is okay) πŸ₯‚

5pm Saturday 19 April,Β Diesel Bar

202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000

2hrs of fun chats, and extra mingle time

Still Unsure?

I Get It,

But what have you got to lose?

Why Not Take a Chance?

The only way is to try

Every night you’ll meet 15 singles

Eventually you will find someone

And If It’s Your First Time

We’re all in the same boat β›΅

Just turn up, I’ll find you a seat

Every 5mins I rotate everyone

You Simply Enjoy Fun Chats

Many have already found love

Tick β€˜yes’ whenever you like someone

Get your matches the next day ❀️

Google Reviews ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

It Builds Confidence

Even if you’re new to the game,

You’ll get better at meeting people

Always Heaps of Attendees βœ…

Each Week I Spend Thousands on AdsΒ 

And always book equal ratios 50:50

So there’s plenty of people to meet βœ”

Whatever You’re Looking ForΒ 

They’re Only One 5min Chat AwayΒ 

Book now & find your someone today

Success Stories πŸ’‘

Many have already found love ❀️

β€œWhen I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

β€œI just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

How It Works

Try To Arrive On Time βœ…

But if you’re a little late, that’s okay

There’s time to mingle & grab a drink

You’ll be greeted and shown your seat

Get Matches on Your PhoneΒ 

On arrival, scan our QR Code 

See all attendees on your phone

Simply tick ‘yes’ on whoever you like

We Organise It For YouΒ 

The hosts will get you settled

And rotate you every 5mins

Simply enjoy fun 5min chats

Matches are sent after the event

Past Event Photos πŸ“Έ

Event Details

Speed dating is like the perfect middle ground between endlessly swiping right and being set up by your well-meaning but clueless aunt – you get to meet multiple potential matches face-to-face in one evening without the pressure of a blind date. If you’re between 32-55 and tired of navigating Melbourne’s notoriously fickle dating scene (where everyone’s either married, married to their career, or just married to the idea of staying home with their cat), this event at Diesel Bar (202 Little Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC 3000) might just change your luck. Getting there couldn’t be easier – jump on the 86 or 96 tram to Parliament Station, or take a short stroll from Melbourne Central Station if you’re coming by train. For outfit inspiration, think smart casual that shows your personality – ladies might find something perfect at Witchery in Emporium, while guys can’t go wrong with a quick visit to Country Road on Bourke Street. Whether you’re commuting from trendy Fitzroy (where you’ve probably developed impossibly high standards for coffee and craft beer) or making the journey from family-friendly Kew (where you’re constantly reminded of your single status by the parade of happy families), you’ll find yourself among kindred spirits looking for genuine connection.

How It Works

The evening unfolds like a well-choreographed dance – arrive at 7pm to collect your name badge and orientation packet, grab a drink to calm those first-date jitters, and prepare for the dating carousel to begin at 7:15pm sharp. Ladies stay seated at numbered tables while gentlemen rotate every five minutes when the bell rings (a system that prevents the chaos of everyone wandering aimlessly looking for their next date). You’ll have 12 bite-sized dates throughout the evening, with a strategic intermission at 8pm where you can catch your breath, refill your glass, and perhaps circle back to someone who caught your eye. The magic happens through our Matching App 4.0 – simply mark ‘yes’ to those you’d like to know better, and by 8am tomorrow, you’ll receive contact details for your mutual matches (no awkward rejections, just positive connections). Conversation cards with prompts like “What’s your idea of a perfect Sunday?” help banish those uncomfortable silences, creating a natural flow that dating apps with their stilted “hey, how’s it going?” openers simply can’t match. With exactly 20 men and 20 women attending (we’re sticklers for balance), you’re guaranteed a full dance card of potential connections, unlike those apps where the gender ratio can be as skewed as Melbourne’s housing market.

Who You’ll Meet

The 32-55 crowd at our events tends to bring a refreshing authenticity to the table – these are professionals who’ve established careers, developed their interests, and know themselves well enough to know what they’re looking for. Many are balancing demanding jobs in Melbourne’s CBD with active social lives, perhaps navigating the post-divorce dating landscape, or simply tired of being the lone singleton at dinner parties where everyone else seems to have paired off like they’re boarding Noah’s ark. The dating challenges for this age group in Melbourne are unique – between career commitments, existing friend circles that rarely introduce new faces, and the coffee culture that has everyone staring at laptops rather than making eye contact with attractive strangers, making meaningful connections can feel harder than finding parking in Brunswick Street. The key to speed dating success? Listen more than you speak, ask thoughtful follow-up questions, and remember that genuine curiosity about another person is more attractive than trying to impress them with your resume. If you hit it off with someone, suggest a second date at the NGV’s latest exhibition – it’s the perfect mix of culture and conversation opportunities without the pressure of a dinner date.

Your Host

Speed Dating Social, founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, has successfully hosted over 787 events, introducing more than 37,423 singles. We pride ourselves on maintaining equal ratios of men and women at every event, ensuring a balanced and enjoyable experience for all.Β 

Tickets are affordably priced at $29.90 for early birds and $34.90 for last-minute decisions. Please note that we don’t offer refunds within 30 days of an event to maintain fairness for all attendees. If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to our team atΒ matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

The Venue

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Diesel Bar offers the perfect backdrop for meeting potential partners – with its exposed brick walls, ambient lighting, and mix of comfortable booth seating and high tables that create intimate conversation spaces without feeling cramped. Located at 202 Little Lonsdale St in the heart of Melbourne, this renovated warehouse space has been a fixture of Melbourne’s nightlife since 2008 and is now owned by hospitality veterans Michael and Sarah Chen, who’ve created a venue that strikes the perfect balance between sophisticated and relaxed. The mezzanine level where we host our events provides just enough privacy from the main bar area while maintaining the energetic atmosphere that makes first meetings feel less like interviews and more like happy accidents. When it’s your turn at the bar, try their signature “Match Maker” cocktail – a playful blend of gin, elderflower, passionfruit, and a hint of chili that’s both sweet and surprising, much like the connections you might make throughout the evening. The central location means you’re perfectly positioned for a post-event stroll through Melbourne’s atmospheric laneways – mention Hosier Lane’s ever-changing street art to someone you’re interested in, and you’ve got a ready-made excuse for that second date exploring Melbourne’s urban art scene together.

Book Tickets

Early Bird Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Early Bird Tickets are cheaper to reward those who book early.

Last Release Tickets from $34.90 AUD

Last Release are the Final tickets available for this event.

Please note: there’s no refunds

Frequently Asked Questions

Please, I drain my bank account to spend an eye watering amount on weekly ads, there’s always plenty of people

We don’t cancel events, check our Instagram @speeddatingsocials our events are epic, full, fun and pumping. We bring it each and every time

As mentioned in the description, there’s a 2 year tolerance either side of the age bracket. That’s +/- 2 years is okay

Of course, we always book equal 50:50 ratios. That’s why there’s a limited amount of both Male/Female ticketsΒ 

Email us at matches@speeddatingsocial.com

To look after people, there’s no refunds – refund policy

If you give us minimum 7 days warning before an event, by our email matches@speeddatingsocial.com (not social media comments or DM requests) and if it’s agreed upon, then we can transfer your ticket to another posted event (not an untimed credit) of the same age range.

Yes, if you can’t make it you can transfer your ticket to a friend, providing they are the same gender and age range that you booked for.

On the night simply scan into our QR Code to access our Matching App 4.0. From there just enter that nights Event Code, your starting table number, mobile number, name and email. From there you’ll be texted and emailed a joining link. Click that link – you’ll then be able to see/ select anyone you like directly though your phone.

All matches are sent at 8am the following day. Even if you don’t select someone, you’ll still receive their contact their details if they selected you

Last places available

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