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Upcoming Over 40s Speed Dating Events

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The Mix Bar
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Fri, 6 December, 7:00 pm AEST
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765 Stanley St, Woolloongabba QLD 4102
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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The Fourth Monkey Cocktail Bar & Grill
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Fri, 20 December, 7:30 pm AEST
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58 Mollison St, South Brisbane QLD 4101
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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Pig 'N' Whistle Brunswick Street
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Sat, 28 December, 5:00 pm AEST
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Brunswick St, Fortitude Valley QLD 4006
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD
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The Mix Bar
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Fri, 3 January, 7:00 pm AEST
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765 Stanley St, Woolloongabba QLD 4102
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Tickets from $29.90 AUD

Over 40s Speed Dating Events In Brisbane

Speed dating for over 40s in Brisbane is a refreshing alternative to online dating, offering mature singles, second-time-arounders, and midlife adventurers a chance to connect face-to-face. While many in this age group have dabbled with apps like Tinder or eHarmony, they often seek more meaningful connections, prioritizing emotional intelligence, financial stability, and shared life goals. Booking through Eventbrite is straightforward, and the anticipation builds as you prepare for an evening of potential romance.Β 

In Brisbane, popular suburbs like Fortitude Valley, West End, and New Farm host these events, catering to a diverse crowd of professionals, divorcees, and those re-entering the dating scene. Many attendees own their homes or are established renters, which can influence their dating preferences and lifestyle choices. Two common challenges for this age group include balancing dating with career demands and navigating the complexities of dating with children. To improve your chances, focus on personal growth and be open about your relationship goals.

Our Venues

The Emporium Hotel in Fortitude Valley offers a sophisticated setting for over 40s speed dating. Its rooftop bar provides stunning city views, creating an instant conversation starter for these seasoned daters. The venue’s extensive wine list allows connoisseurs to bond over a shared appreciation for fine vintages. For these established professionals and mature singles, the hotel’s signature Emporium Martini serves as a classy ice-breaker.

In West End, The Boundary Hotel’s relaxed atmosphere puts even nervous daters at ease. Its spacious beer garden offers a perfect retreat for those needing a breather between mini-dates, while the live music adds a vibrant energy to the evening. The pub’s craft beer selection is a hit among beer enthusiasts, sparking conversations about favorite brews. For these midlife romantics, the Boundary Burger paired with a local pale ale makes for a satisfying post-event treat.Β 

Lastly, The Balfour Kitchen & Bar in New Farm provides an intimate setting for more refined tastes. Its art-filled interiors offer plenty of talking points for cultured singles, while the terrace seating allows for romantic stargazing between rounds. The venue’s farm-to-table approach resonates with health-conscious daters, and their signature Spiced Rum Old Fashioned is a sophisticated choice for these discerning adults.

What To Expect At Our Events

Upon arrival, attendees receive their name tags and scan the QR code for the Matching App 4.0, allowing them to view profiles and make selections in real-time. The event kicks off with casual mingling, followed by 12 five-minute dates. Conversation topics often revolve around career achievements, favorite Brisbane haunts, and future aspirations. The midway break offers a chance to catch your breath and strategize your remaining dates.

Speed Dating Social

Founded by Darcy Todd in 2020, Speed Dating Social has successfully introduced over 37,423 singles in their 20s30s, 40s, 50s and over 60s across 787 events. With early bird tickets at $29.90 and last-release at $34.90, it’s an affordable way to meet potential partners. The no-refund policy within 30 days ensures committed attendees, contributing to a more engaging experience. Brisbane singles in their 40s often find speed dating more efficient than apps like Match.com or EliteSingles, appreciating the immediate chemistry assessment.

Post Event Epping Date Night Ideas

For those looking to expand their social circle, groups like the Brisbane Social Club or local fitness classes offer additional opportunities to meet like-minded individuals. After a successful match, couples might enjoy a romantic second date at the Brisbane Botanic Gardens or a sunset river cruise, both offering serene settings to deepen their newfound connection. Whether you’re a divorcee, a busy professional, or simply ready for a new chapter, Brisbane’s over 40s speed dating scene offers a vibrant platform to find love, companionship, or simply a fun night out.

Attendee Reviews

Jeffery
Jeffery
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I tried a speed dating night in Melbourne, it was pretty good, I think 2 ladies didn't show up but I still got about 14 dates
Sarah
Sarah
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was a fun night out with my girlfriends, some conversations were a tad dull but 2 cute guys made it worth it and even got their numbers
Steph H
Steph H
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I didn't know speed dating was a thing but I'm new to the area and was good meeting some new people
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Frequently Asked Questions

For speed dating in your 40s, aim for smart casual attire that’s both stylish and comfortable. Men might opt for well-fitted chinos with a button-down shirt, while women could choose a flattering dress or a chic blouse with tailored pants. A great place to shop for appropriate outfits is Myer in Queen Street Mall. They offer a wide range of fashionable yet age-appropriate options that will help you feel confident and look your best.

When speed dating, discuss shared interests and experiences. Brisbane singles in their 40s might enjoy talking about the city’s vibrant food scene, like favorite restaurants in South Bank, or outdoor activities such as hiking in the nearby Glasshouse Mountains. These topics could naturally lead to planning a second date exploring a new restaurant or enjoying a weekend hike together.

To look your best, consider visiting Toni & Guy in the MacArthur Central Shopping Centre on Edward Street. Ask for a fresh, modern cut that suits your face shape and lifestyle. For women, a sleek blow-dry can add polish, while men might opt for a neat trim and styling. Remember, confidence is key, so choose a look that makes you feel great.

Typically, these events aim for around 40 attendees, with an equal ratio of men to women. Many participants come from Brisbane itself, but you’ll also meet people from surrounding suburbs like Chermside and Carindale. This mix of local and nearby residents increases your chances of finding compatible matches within a reasonable distance.

Absolutely! Many attendees at these events are often referred to as “midlife singles” or “second-time-arounders.” They’ve usually had past relationships and are looking for meaningful connections, whether that’s a long-term partnership or companionship. Their life experience often means they have a clearer idea of what they want in a relationship.

Dating in your 40s can be incredibly rewarding. At this stage of life, many people are established in their careers and have a better understanding of themselves. You bring life experience, emotional maturity, and often financial stability to the table. Many in this age group are looking for genuine connections and shared experiences, rather than starting families or navigating early career pressures.

Beyond speed dating, popular places to meet other singles include fitness classes at Goodlife Health Clubs, which has multiple locations across Brisbane. Many also enjoy group activities like the Brisbane Hiking Meetup or wine tasting events at City Winery. Getting involved is usually as simple as signing up for classes or joining meetup groups that align with your interests.

Three popular meetup groups for over 40s in Brisbane are:

  1. “Brisbane 40+ Social Group” – They organize various activities from dinners to day trips.
  2. “Brisbane Professionals Social Club” – This group focuses on networking events and social gatherings.
  3. “Brisbane Adventure Club” – They arrange outdoor activities and fitness-oriented events.